Looking for preschool starting from 2 yrs old.
This is a discussion on EDD June 2012 Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by Amazingpig Hungry is it? Starting part my CL leave, my baby whole night never sleep. From 3 ...
Looking for preschool starting from 2 yrs old.
Did your add me in already? Joeychen85@hotmail.com..
Ya mrs wang they kip helpin us , till my husband get use to it .. Once his playin game.. He will ask some 1 around to help.. Specially his mum.. then when he saw me he dont dare ask me.. Cos he kno I will scold him.. -_-" then always say to me , if his mum never help .. We sure jialat.. Is he never learn.. then hw he take care? then he carry baby , baby cry then his mum will walk over n say " cme I tk care ".. then he pass to her.. Wth if 1 day me n his mum not around then hw? Any hw throw to other ppl n continue his game huh? say him also no use.. Cme back , never tin of vaccum d floor as nxt door doin renov .. Use knee cap n tin also kno , floor sure full of dust.. No he just sit dwn there n play his game.. then at nite sleep very early n complain his tired.. what the.. I from d timin he sleep , tk care of baby till nxt day noon .. Who more tired? My hours is more then his job .. More then 8 hr.. then sleep at noon time not even 4 hr have to wake up.. Repeat d same tin.. Can say no life at all.. Tiring.. Some time I even put temper on my baby .. Feel so bad..
For me normally when baby about 3mths plus I will take away the night feeding if not will be very tired to wake up at nite to feed... Is up to you, how you want to take care of baby...
I do confinement till 40days for all my confinement, this time also as this will be my last and final confinement so I need to do properly... Must be super good ger as I dont want any problem next time, for you mummies as this is your 1st, I believe you will have 2nd baby so if this time you all dont do properly and later on feel really got problem, it ok, the next confinement do properly can ... You can dont care now but when the pain come you will know... Hehe... That's what I learn...
Black angel and mrs Wang,
Can share your post natal massage lady contacts? 1 time $40? Cheaper then what I found... Can PM me? Tml discharge want find massage lady as my tummy very big...
jenni, pm-ed you.. sorry keep missing out messages. lol.. coincidentally, she lives in yishun also. lol
ya.. my hubby also say.. nvm.. I can still tune your body back when I have 2nd one.. but will i be good girl or not.. lol.. i doubt so.
joey.. sometimes i feel my hubby more relax.. go work more relax then taking care of baby. luckily i didnt be stay at home mum. i still have my friends and work to balance my home life.. so you also make plans.. we women must also have our own life. poor baby. dont take it out on him. take it out on your hubby, scold him. just now my hubby brother and mother in law want help me, i say no need.. what the.. why you all think you can do it while I cant.. zzz..
catflying.. i think its quite sad when your own baby prefers others to carry rather than you, yourself the mother. im very scared of this when i return to the workforce.. so its important, must have bonding!!!!
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I am doing my confinement for 40 days too. Hope to replenish my nutrients.
Mrs Wang thanks, receive your pm, will call her tml after I discharge... How is she? Good?
My girl is 11 days today. I've been having hands-on taking care of her all the way EXCEPT for her baths in the morning, cos still can't squat down. Once in awhile when I'm really way too exhausted, i let my maid/mum/hubby to take care while I KO on bed. The night before, I was so tired till I got so exhausted and depress that i just sat infront of my laptop, looking at pictures of her and just crying my eyes out. The feeling is like... so so tired just wanna end everything. But think of her, I tell myself I can never ever leave my dear daughter. lucky... Cos I got history of depression in the past. But maybe becos got history, now still can spot the symptoms and control abit.
Anyway, rest more while you all can. Today I went to ICA and also got a haircut plus go to bank. From noon time I was out till about 445pm headed home. I almost collapse.. Felt so dizzy and breathless. My back hurts ALOT which cause me to be unable to walk properly. I guess I bend down to change my girl's diapers plus to carry her for her milkmilk too much already. And the lack of sleep... Every 3 hours I will wake up, but not all the time I will get out of bed. It is still bad cos I can't get proper rest at all. Worried about her too much. And also dont want to trouble others to care for her, esp at night. At least she is a good girl, her feeding time very fixed at 3 hours. At times she can sleep till 4 hours and I will have to wake her up for milkmilk. Sometimes will cry for change of diapers, or when she is feeling restless (i think. Cos dont know why she crying at times when put her into the cot).
For myself personally, I will just carry my girl and keep talking to her especially when she is crying. Keep telling her that this is mummy's voice, just listen and calm down~ haha. Sometimes she will stop crying for awhile and stare at me with her curious eyes. I will sing to her at times also. From birth, I will always tell her to listen to my voice and calm down. I know many pple say not to carry baby too much, cos baby might become reliant and want to be carried alot in future. Well, I feel that creating the bond between us is more important. So i will just carry her to let her know mummy is with her. My hubby shares the same thoughts as me. So we are fine with it.. ^^
I think carrying is still alright cause baby is in our tummy for so long.. She needs the warmth and love from us, dont't deprive them of it because scared they will become reliant.
Engravedx do take care.. Rest when you have time...
And I think crying is quite common.. I cried.. I think some other mummies also. For me it lasted 2 weeks..
For mummies who are scared they might not be able to tckare of baby cos didnt "learn" much as it was others taking care, dont worry! Our maternal instincts are very strong. My hubby and I are only 21 and I feel that we are doing a good job taking care of my girl with minimal help. Only thing is, both of us damn fail in burping her. Hahaha. But, really, you will just know how to do it if you are willing and dare to try. No one taught us how to change her clothes, diapers, feed her milk, carry her, etc. My mum only showed us how to bathe her ONCE and my hubby knws how to do it already. When she is crying too hard, I can even carry her while making milk (abit messy cos powder might spill. Haha). Dont worry too much!! Will be okay . Only thing is - super tiring. Lol..
sigh.... went to the doctor yesterday cos both my wrists are really sore. Doctor said it's due to over handling of baby n it's a common problem. She advised to reduce handling of baby so that my wrists can recover....Ya...right, then who take care of baby?? We are alone here in nz, no parents to help out ...when Hubby goes to work, I am all alone ....
Now depending on painkillers but I dont want to eat too much as I m bf....sigh....dont know how...
Will go pharmacy on Thursday to buy wrist supports...hopefully they will help...
Dreamalyn- must take care of it !! My ex-colleague had the same issue. Had to see the doctor so frequently for it. And it will hurt alot when cold wind blows against her hand. When your hubby is around, let him carry instead so can 'reduce handling of baby'!!
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Engravedx... I m thinking of asking Hubby to take leave so my wrists can have a chance of recovering... anyway hubby got too much leave n his mgr has been after him to clear his leave... dont know 5days enough for my wrists to recover not??....
Every time carry baby have to be very very careful....so scare of dropping her.....
Dreamalyn- what i can suggest to you is to put baby on your lap (like sitting but w your arms supporting her neck) when you are feeding her.. This will put less pressure onto your hand and wrist.. Unless you are breastfeeding, then im not sure. Cos i bottle-feed my girl.
I am also starting to feel numbness on my left hand. Hope it's not going to be strained. ><"
I'm not sure if 5 days is enough for your wrist to recover but it's better for you to rest your wrist asap before the condition worsens. Anyway, good opportunity for you to get more rest as well. (:
Well im trying to stop my nap n take care of him.. I find that kip wake up 1/2 way is too tiring.. So trying to hold my nap whole nite n c how.. C if I never sleep n manage will it b better..
Some time I felt so unfair.. When we r pregnant need to suffer so many tin .. Even depression ... After give birth also must scare of depression too.. then d guys yet can so relax n play their game.. Enjoy their life.. But us have to take care of baby every sec , min.. Show no care some more.. Yet he can say he every time just play his game just 2 to 3 hours ONLY.. when not playing game , then fall sleep while siting on sofa.. Say nicely is company me.. Yet fall sleep.. Is like sit beside me is so boring to him.. say what I didnt tok to him.. Like tis hw to tok.. Gt time to tok , but his playing game.. Or slpin.. How to tok.. Find that our conversation can use both hand to count .. sigh... My face black is normal , cos totally no mood .. How to give a smiley face.. I dont force myself to smile when I'm not happy.. It's so tiring..
Dreamalyn.. Ya.. How not to take care of baby when you're the only one at home?? Since your hubby has leave to clear, ask him to help you.. Not sure if 5 days enough but can try.. Be careful when you carry the baby.. you can put baby on your arm so that you dont't strain your wrist...
Joey.. Ya it's unfair.. But life is like that.. Mothers have the natural instinct, dont't bear let our children cry or suffer so we take extra good care of them.. Fathers they just leave the job to mothers because they know we'll do a good job. I always find time for baby to bond with daddy when he comes out. Make a point for him to feed him as sayang him.. Is your hubby helping to take Care since mother in law has left?
Told Hubby to apply for leave this morning .... will have to call him n remind him later....he very forgetful one...
Mrs wang.. sometimes I use the back of my palms to carry baby as well as my arms.. hopefully can recover soon....daily life very much affected..e.g. wear bra is like a torture to me now as very pain to twist my hands.... a lot of inconvenience now...sigh.