This is a discussion on EDD June 2012 Mummies within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; He only help once in awhile , mostly he will sleep like a dead meat .. Cry out d throat ...
He only help once in awhile , mostly he will sleep like a dead meat .. Cry out d throat Also no reaction from him.. D most open eye n ask what happen , nxt min sleep back.. -_-" sigh.. Or else put his time on game.. When ever he carry n d baby still cry.. His mum will cme over n tk over.. Hw to have bonding.. ? Me too.. When i carry till 1/2 also cme n tk over.. then when I able to carry .. His slpin.. dont wish to disturb him from slpin.. now only can wait for d confinement end , n mother in law no need to cme n cook for me.. Tin tats d time I can have bondin with my boy.. Still 9 day to go.. Jia you..
But although begin a mother sure will tk extra care on baby , but just not happy with how they can just leave all tis job to us.. We r human not robot.. Robot also need to off engine n rest awhile if not spare part spoil also need $$ to repair .. Like us too.. If sick also need $$ to go c doc.. Same theory.. If every tin leave to us n yet we can manage.. then I believe even with out them we still can survive by our own.. They leave all to us , then we can leave them 4ever..
Any one knows how to cook papaya fish soup till milky? Mine always very clear . Can share your recipes ?
I also hope he can do .. hard .. now I go every where also go with him.. Most of my friend r wrking.. not free to MIT me.. what I can do is wait few more month.. then let him tk care of baby.. Cos now baby still too young .. C him tk care of baby , will worry.. No mood go out also.. I will find a chance to relax myself .. some time I really too tired , then eye cannot open fully.. 1/2 open.. then saw him tkin care of my boy , feed milk milk or change diaper then I sleep back.. not every time.. Tml nite will b I alone with my boy at nite.. Cos his doin ot .. Won't around from noon till nxt am.. Anw tml noon I will pass baby to my mother in law.. Seen shes cmin to cook confinement food for me... So I must well let her tk care n I go for a long nap.. That's d only chance I can rest during confinement.. After that no more .. Cos his mum won't b cmin to cook .. So I was Tinkin if his not around n im alone.. Either bring my boy dwnstair buy food or I ownself cook porridge or Maggie mee.. Cook rice will b difficult.. Cos alone .. Cook 1 person quite hard..
Joey, your confinement end?
Catflying - I got use bf pillow but also not much use... otherwise I won't develop such pain ..
Amazing pig - hw I wish my confinement finish.. N can go bath normally every day.. No need boil d herb.. C d flooring so dark in d toilet.. B cos d herbs water dry up turns that color.. then weather hot like hell.. thought was goin to rain.. Hai.. then auto 2 hr wake up.. Even I able to get a long nap.. auto on 2 hours alarm in my body..-_-" today shld at lease sleep till 6++ or 7.. yet I already wake up now.. Hope I able to sleep back.. 2nd time .. Auto wake up with out setting alarm to ring..
Black angel your Cl left on the 28th days or after?
Is it true tht through BF, baby will absorp calcium from mummy? I m a low bone density person, not sure whether I m suitable for long term BF?
Mummy who bf, will you clean your breast before latch，use what to clean?
Yukim, can just use warm water to wipe. And it will also help your milk flow faster..
I use alchor free wet tissue.. : ) I do it tis way when I'm still in hospital.. N tats d nurse pass d wet tissue to me , ask me wipe with wet tissue then bf.. Although I pump not latching.. But d nurse did say no matter what shld clean up before bf..
Blackangel- yea, I went for scan last time and have low bone density.gynae prescribed me calcium pill.but dont know y the intake given is lower than my ortho specialist prescribed. Knee will pain if not enough calcium.feel like lao and depressed last time.now start to worry tht after baby come out will it be worse or not.lol.I m in 37 weeks 2 days now.
My gynae prescribe iron,calcium n fish oil to me. She say as long as breast feed, must consume the pills.
I just want to rant.
my in law always indirectly test me on handling the baby.
Firstly, When she is changing diaper, she act blur ask me which side is up. She been bathing baby for few days already. She definitely know.she testing me whether I know how to change the diaper.
secondly, she hand me baby, tell me baby have not burp, so I burp the baby in front of her.
thirdly, she told my husband, she want me to bath baby in front of her. To make sure I know how to bath baby.
I told my husband, I won't bath baby in front of her. This is not right.
Does your in law or mom do that to you? She dont trust me. Every time, when traveling. She say she will carry baby instead of putting her in car seat. She say car seat very uncomfortable.
My position hard to Argue w her. My husband already warn her car seat safer then carry. She still insist.
Anybody have Lobang for buying diapers?
where can buy carton of diapers instead of packs? 1 month I already use 3 packs
dont't think too much of unhappy things and get depress. Crying is not good during confinement. Tell your hubby to help you and do the things when you are tired. dont't keep to youself and suffer ok?
Amazingpig- I'm just opened my 3rd pack of huggies newborn diapers. I bought them from supermarket at $7. Super duper chor!! Suppose to use cloth diapers for baby but not experienced, dont know hw to use. End up use disposable. Lol.. And my girl is only 13 days!!
Amazingpig- waaa if i need to bathe my girl infront of others, i sure super stress ! Kns. But inexperienced, i will want someone to help me on the first time also.. But the child is our own one afterall, why is there a need to "prove" to others that we can do it? It's not nice at all..
But for travelling in car, I will carry baby.. I feel that baby will feel more safe in our embrace. Just like i dont put her in stroller when we go out. I will carry her.. But to each her own . When she is bigger then i will get carseat and stroller for her.. Still, you are baby's mum, they shld respect your decision. Just like my mum and mother in law, they will tell me to do this and that. I straight tell them, no need, with my reasons. Then they will just let make my own decision and respect me. Just that they will still lemme know their opinions which i will listen first. Like for carseat and stroller, initially i wanted to get. My mum told me still small dont use first, I agreed and listen to her .. But whatever decision you make that does not agree with theirs, it is best you support and back it up with good reasoning so that they wont have much to say. Like example my mother in law ask me feed my girl water, i tell her no need, that all the book and online i read all say no need to feed water at all.. So she never say anything else.