This is a discussion on EDD May 2012 Mummies! within the Year 2012 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Originally Posted by clearbluesky Wow... you even have a better tai tai life than all of us.. hahaha. Maybe you ...
Sorry late reply... Yah my earring hole also closed from behind .... I thought it's just cuz I dont wear earrings anymore, nothing to do with pregnancy.
Omg, now I know how it feels to have BH! It's super uncomfortable. Tried relaxing or breathing techniques... No use. Will this mean that we will go into labour earlier? My mom say when she was pregnant with me, I was 10 days overdue . So I thought my baby will also be a bit late
Actually i'm still quite active. wont expereince breathlessness but if i forget and over walk, then at night my back will ache. I'm more uncomfortable when it comes to standing for too long, walking is fine. strange. N i feel uncomfortable sleeping, have to toss n turn cuz stomach too heavy, n baby legs and head is on both of my sides. sleep on right scare will hurt his head, sleep on left i think his leg uncomfortable keep kicking me away....zzzz
Huang lian po as in last time when i was working ill makeup n doll up everytime. Nowadays, i dont even apply much makeup. N with my growing weight n unkempt hair ( cuz dont dear to go colour so must as well dont do anything first) i really feel that i'm going out of hand. for the sake of baby
sometimes will worry hubby stray ( i know im thinking too much. LOL) cuz his job is always surrounded by many pretty gals.. though i trust him. BUT.. then again....
Last edited by Gemini11; 27-03-2012 at 11:03 PM.
Dear Gemini11, believed throughout our pregnancy, there will be instances whereby we have 'coldfeet' thinking of the weight we put on n how that affect our physical appearance, if we can shed off these extra kgs after delivery, how our hubby view such changes in us etc.. All such fears, doubts are very much real. You are def not alone
For me, I have such insecurities at times so tend to ask my hubby if he still loves me, despite that fact that I m 35 yrs old n rightfully should not be behaving like such. Lol. Guess we just need the assurance now n then. Being pregnant doesn't just affect our physical, it affects our emotions too.
End of day, think back why you married your guy, you have faith n trust in him thus willing to go down the marriage path. Now, as we mummies move into a new phase of our lives, our man will be besides us, giving us the support, love we need. Continue to have faith ya!!
Last edited by Meilynn; 28-03-2012 at 08:20 AM.
Indeed, pregnant made me very emotional... I tears over very small matter, n over some remarkS my hubby made... he also ask y did I keep crying over small matter... of cos I denied to make him guilty ha ha
after reading the comment you all make on hubby n emotion stuff. realised i am actually going throu all this w/o knowing.
think i feel abit insecure nowadays, specially w/o makeup n dress-up, specially my hubby always style up his hair, he say cos i look young, he need dress up to suit me. i try to dress up n makeup everyday now no matter how tired i am. lucky hubby seem to like my preggy bump, he always say cute. hahhaa
recently start to feel more emotional also, i try to hold back my tear once when outside, just becos i throw a temper over a small matter, hubby just simply say pass a remark over the matter. he very scared when i cry. nowaday whenever i got husband, he ask too much on how i feel, i will tend to hold back tear also.
maybe cry out is better?? oop then make him guilty
Yap Yap I always try to hold back the tears bt it just flow freely... last time I hardly shed a drop of tears...
Think it is no good, scare baby come out become cry baby bt some how its uncontrollable...
Hey ladies, maybe you can encourage your hubby to read up about their role in pregnancy. My hubby went to do some reading up in his free time. He read that we need regular assurances about our appearances. So he will always make it a point to say how good I look, pregnant got glow, or how he loves me. It really helps alot.
Cuz if we are secure n happy, baby can feel it.
sigh...I tried asking him to read the pregnancy book bt he always give excuse... so I drag him to the pre-natal class so that he know wht I am goin thru, else he always said i am giving excuses ....
understand what you mean. my hubby also lazy to read anything that time when i was pregnant zzz. keep saying busy with work. his work really quite hectic but then i was hoping he would spend some time to understand what i was going thru . so wanted to drag him to prenatal class but in the end the baby couldn't wait to come out. haha. didn't get a chance to attend.
anyway mummies, if you all breastfeed, will lose weight very fast! i think i went back to my pre-pregnancy state by the end of confinement. gained like 3kg during pregnancy but then again my baby was very small so my womb also never expand much.
anyway got something funny to share.
last sunday when i went back my mum's place for dinner, we heard a lot of skidding and what sounded like a bad accident involving many vehicles (but actually only one car that skidded and went up the kerb). so EVERYONE ran to the balcony, including me, but my mum said "you dont't go and see". so i thought okay go back to eat my dinner.
after that i ask her how come cannot see, i'm not pregnant what. then she said she "oh ya i forgot" -__- hahaha.
Ha ha So cute...
Gemini, dont't think will become Huang Lian Po .. Its really up to yourself, if lazy then really bo pian. At home also can put on light make up, like powder, so that face wouldn't get oily. Then comb hair etc... dont't dress too lok kok at home .. If really become stay at home mum really need to motivate yrself to groom nicely too... =)