Felicity, hope your baby will become better. Just take thing at one time, no rush.. I panicked when pediatrician told me let her have some tummy time and strengthened her neck muscle. All along I thought my baby's neck quite strong, coz always carry her upright. Realized she always lean against my arm. My mum told me not to worry. Baby will automatically learn at their own pace, but have to expose them and help them a bit so that they are aware. So now, I'm trying to give her a bit of tummy time. But, she tried to lift up her backside, instead of neck. And then she will cry out loud, like asking for help before she break into cries..