someone pls get me out of all these problems..
This is a discussion on EDD March 2013 within the Year 2013 Mummy forum, part of the Mummy Meeting Place category; Heehee... I also got breathless easily. Just walk to bus stop alrdy feel like i run a maraton. My detail ...
Heehee... I also got breathless easily. Just walk to bus stop alrdy feel like i run a maraton.
My detail scan is only on 14th. Soooo far... I miss looking and get amazed by its free willing movement. Im quite sensitive & had felt baby moving since 12th week. Think maybe gonna be a naughty boy. There was tis day i was q-ing for a milkshake n there was hip hop music in background. I feel he start break-dancing. *omg* i put my hubbie hand on tummy. But he claims he cant feel his movement... -.-"'
someone pls get me out of all these problems..
And the most important thing is communication. Try to get a good time and good environment (perhaps during outside dining) to understand your mother in law's thought.
Good luck ya
my mother in law wants to hire a maid for only 6 mths..
she claim she has found an agency which allows us to return the maid after 6 mths and to cancel and offset the contract and refund us all agent fees..
both my hubby and myself dont believe.. my hub decided to check out after back from taiwan trip.. my mother in law feels that the amount of money used to hire a confinement lady is enough hire a maid for 6 mths.. so she sees that it's more worth that way..
my points on not having maid:
1) mother in law say she will use 1 month to train the maid and she only wanna hire those from kampong - this i think not possible
2) i dont want to handle any dispute between them during my confinement since i wanna rest
3) my house has no more rooms for the maid to sleep - cant possibly ask her sleep living room?
4) i think it's not fair to send the maid home after 6 mths since she hasnt earn a single cent..
5) if any dispute, the maid go crazy and do funny things to my baby - this i will go crazy
now i only can wait for my hubby to go check out from the agency.. and prove my mother in law wrong..
Yup, let your hubby and mother in law settle it. I think your mother in law could have other reasons to raise up this issue. Perhaps she doesn't want to take care of the baby and make some those things? But dont let this matter disturb you and affect your baby. Take care.
my sincere apologies that i complained here..
this is forum is meant for mummies to share joy and happiness and pregnancy journey yet i am making "noises" here..
hope all goes well with your mother in law and the maid.
for me i always used to think my mother in law will take care of my kids and i'll work as she's very good with childcare (all my sils kids are taken care of by her as well as some distant relatives' in the past). but then since i'm not working now it's only right i take care of my own kid myself and i want to do it too. but if i'm not doing that i'd probably hire a maid for her if she's helping to take care of my kid. it's very tiring for old folks to take care of babies especially if they've to do housework too. i've seen many friends mothers/mils who started off thinking they can do it but still run into problems eventually and end up having to get help - either hire maid or send kids to childcare etc.
I always think that my baby bump is growing bigger and bigger during night time. LOL Every morning I wake up then I realize there is an inch increase for my waistline : )
Neuros, edd and where to deliver.. LOL
Hehe, heard from many that after 20w it will start to grow bigger and bigger
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I feel that I ballooned a lot in the last 2 weeks. Attending a wedding lunch this sat - dress I was planning to wear and tried on ok with some allowance 2 weeks ago now cannot wear anymore *sob*. But my weight gain is only 0.2kg - why??? hmmm...
Mine too. Got more obvious since nearing 20th week and after.
neuros, where did you get the dress? I have a wedding dinner to attend in Jakarta next month. Gotta shop for a dress to wear.
Hahahaha... Not only you ladies cant fit in that nice dress. I cant fit in most of my clothes as for my drastic weight gain earlier pregnancy. Now i guess my weight is stablizing, but my tummy is ballooning!!! My bump is very obvious @ 17th weeks only... *palmface*
I also attending a wedding at Sentosa early of Dec with "HUGE HUGE" baby bump (i guess) .. 7++ months... LOL
Wanna to get a nice nice gown too