I had a m/c last sept, it was my first baby =( I also asked myself many many times why me when everyone around me seems to make it.
then my close friend n my mother in law came to tell me they also went through m/c.. they didnt want to share till they see me breaking down. my hubby was shocked cos the whole family did not know about it (except father in law)
Then i realise is not last gen dont happen often, just that they kept it in the dark and the culture of last time is not to say or mention it. Now era is abit different, we are more open to share. not because we want sympathy or what. Sometimes, venting out is better than keeping it inside.