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[CanCanMum]

shiseru babe,

sorry to hear that.......please do take good care of yourself after the procedure.....

.....its sad to let go.....*hUgS*

[missblue18]

Dear mummies

We have seek a second opinion with Ann Tan previously with Mount E and confirmed the defect, it was severe. My husband and I are devastated but we have decided to proceed the abortion.

This is the toughest moment, I feel like I am losing my mind, I hope I have the strength to go through this ordeal.

i'm so sorry to hear this...please be strong and know that we're all praying for you...

[godloved]

take care and even though it's a painful decision, i am sure you will be blessed with another child in time to come..what's important now is to be strong and know that you r not alone.

[pinkwipes]

You gotta hold yourself up.
I really feel for you, it's a painful ordeal.
Stay strong. (:

[apollo]

take good care of your health after that... =)

[sufeit0115]

I am so sad to hear this & really feel very pain....the loss maybe unbearable at the moment but time will heal everything, very soon you will be blessed with another baby. Take care and be strong. Rest well my dear.

[Triquetra]

I'm very sorry for your loss.
dont't give up, every challenge is something to be overcome on the path that will eventually lead you to your precious child.

Please try to stay positive, take good care of yourself and rest well.

[chiro]

pls be strong n dont give up... Your next baby will be a healthy n normal baby...

[uddermummy]

Dear Shiseru, this must be a heartwrenching decision for you. *hugs*

Do take care of yourself. *hugs hugs*

[austrina]

my dear... my heart sank when i came 2 know about e 2nd check confirm about e defect & e toughest decision you have 2 made 2 terminate e whole pregnancy... i know it will b hard & sad 2 let go... bt dont worry meantime take good care of your health after e procedure & i blive God will bless you w nother healthy baby in no time... pray 2 him... have faith & dont lose hope...
i will also pray 4 your baby & may him/her b in God's hands safe & sound... *hugz*
God bless...

[VELO]

Thank you all the mummies for words of encouragement and blessing, you give me strength and keep me sane. It's hard to control the feeling and we find ourselves waking up and crying at night.

1 hour is like 1 day, I am losing my mind. I can't sleep well, and I can't eat.. but I am telling myself to stay calm and strong...

Dear Shiseru, my heart goes out to you and your hubby for the lost of your child. I know no words can take away the pain you are experiencing but I pray that God will help you & your hubby heal. I know all MTBs and mummy out there are rooting for you! Dont give up! Have faith!

[shiseru]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tore into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daughter and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

[yellowpudding]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tored into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daugther and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

Hugs, I do hope that you will find your strength back soon. Do rest well at the meanwhile and come onto the forum should you need listening ears dear.

[Newhope]

You must take good care.
Must do some confinement as well. Last time I miscarriaged, also did confinement for about 2 wks.
Build up your body and try again.
Life is full of ups and downs.
Think positive that your doc has managed to diagnose your baby condition so that her quality of life will not be compromised.

Take care.

[Domique]

i know its a very tough road you are facing.... it takes time to heal but pls take care of your health.

Urs is considered you have went through delivery so must take some tonics no matter what!

health is also very impt! mental health too.... ..

you may wish to try for baby 1-2 months later as many said its easy to get baby as you may be mire fertile. (if you 2 are feel better)

Meanwhile, dont hesitate to contact any of us if you need a listening ear. PM me if you need numbers to call...

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tored into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daugther and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

[CanCanMum]

shiseru babe,

its a heart wrenching moment and i hope you can regain your strength and health quickly and smoothly

so many mummies are here to care about you, so please please recuperate and take care of your health
*big HUG*

[uddermummy]

shiseru, I'm sure your dear daughter loves you as much as you love her. The skies have another new star cos your little angel is up there, watching over you and your hubby.

*Big warm hug*

[apollo]

I hope you and your hubby can look forward... think positively... rest well and build up your health back again then you can have another baby soon...

[Amulet]

do take care of your body..

anyway, if in case you decide to keep the baby again last min, hope this blog can give you some peace...

A Mother's Journey in Faith
This boy here is born with NTD, and have achieved so much in his life now..

[izanyzam]

Hi Shiseru..It was heart-wrenching to read your post esp the part you mentioned about looking at your baby..I myself have gone through 2 previous miscarriages..Have held both of my fetuses when i passed them out..I havent come to terms with the first loss when i experienced the second one..I know the pain that you are feeling..The pain that you and hubby are going through at this moment..Please know that we too mourn for your loss..Do take care of yourself both physically and mentally..Its easier said than done but im sure you and your hubby will find strength and comfort in each other to make it through this difficult time.

*BIG BIG HUGS FOR YOU*

[hueychye79]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tore into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daughter and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

Hi Shiseru, please take care yourself and do some confiment.

I understand how pain you are and I know even you have another baby also cannot replace the lost one.

'HUG'....

[jal]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tore into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daughter and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

シセルさん、私も泣いていますよ！
でも、あきらめないで。ネーバーギブアップ！
私たちもシセルさんの見方なんですから！
一緒にがんばろう！！！

[adelynn]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tore into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daughter and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

*hugs*
I know this is a hard time for both you and your hubby, but please take care of yourselves and remember that there are alot of people who are rooting for you and care for you.

Your health is equally as important as taking time to mourn over your loss

[autumn82]

Thank you mummies for the word of encourage and support.

I was admitted to KK on Friday morning. After induced for 5 times, i delivered the fetus at 6.40am on Sat. The labour process was painful and without any rewards, knowing the fetus's going to die within seconds. I felt my heart tore into pieces. I have no baby to carry home...

My hubby and I took a last look at our baby. Although small but bigger than my palm, with nails and other parts nicely formed. She is our beautiful daughter and we will always love and remember her.

The whole incident has put us into depression, and we hope to find our strength back soon.

Do rest well in the meantime and talk to us if you need listening ears.. *hug*

[woofy55]

Dear shiseru - i guess nothing we say will make you any better... cos only time can heal... just a reminder that you still have family and friends who are concern about you.. and you can write your feeling here. dont't bottom everything down. Take very good care of yourself, and ya, do confinement build up your health again. Jiayou...