This is a discussion on When will baby starts kicking me??? within the Second Trimester forum, part of the Pregnancy Forum category; Originally Posted by XenXuan Haha my friend also place headphones over her tummy n on classical music for her baby ...
Ya I also feel for awhile it's ok.. My baby at some days won't kick me much , like not so consistence.. But when my 2yr old son lie down near my tummy or on my tight, she will start her kungfu inside, like playing with kor kor haha
I also not sure, he is just lying on my tight or lying beside me on e bed.. At times he will sit on my both lap n hug/kiss my tummy, my girl inside will somersault to that action.. Haha my son likes to sleep with us on my bed since I'm pregnant,he usually will stick close to me like 1 feel my body warmth haha.. I think some old wives tales may be true, kids know when mummy got a baby inside.. Haha
talking about pain & aches, i often will have pain at my lower abdomen if i walk for too long..
Hehe maybe he's really bonding with baby sis now,but usually in the day he is so notti,I can't stop scolding him or getting angry over him.. Old ppl said like this will affect my baby inside but I dont have much choice,unless I totally ignore him from my life haha.. Trying to calm myself down whenever I feel angry..
My girl is more active too when I sleep on my left, cuz the blood circulation is better when we sleep on our left.. Lol last night eventually I slept only left side n maybe I was too tired,I did not shift my body to the right at all, woke up feeling abit stiff neck haha.. Try ask your hubby to massage your back/spine for you while you lie on your side.. I often feel my whole spinebone is so tensed too, just rub down a few times can relax it abit.. The baby is getting bigger,it's more pressure on your back n waist,try drink more milk too..
Turning 2years old this march 15.. Can't believe almost 2yrs ago I have him inside my tummy, now having another baby haha..
so do you stay home to look after him?
Ya ,wanted to put him to playgroup n stuff next year then I can go work part time or something, now just have to take care another 1..I wasn't working since married, just can't leave them to some childcare or nanny to look after,the bonding is better when its ownself take care..it's too precious to miss their 1st 10yrs, after this ,they will start to fly away from you already haha..
i've quit my job last month.. but over the month, boredom sets in practically i'm staying at home almost everyday.. really hope to give birth soon so dat baby can keep me company.. hee! but i'll still cherish this 'relax' period cos i know it will be different after that..
How i wish i can quit my job and relax at home.
Maybe i can find a 'work from home' job.
if everything permits, i guess is better to get a home base job n can spend more time with baby..
Haha I was playing online games before I got pregnant.. Was playing games from my 1st pregnancy til now, at times it can just -stress me.. I enjoyed my 1st pregnancy "nothing to do" period well,go where only need bring my "precious soccer ball" , not like now, got a toddler,go where also mafan haha.. Went shopping whenever I want to,most of the time is just window shopping for babies stuff,compare n conclude what to buy at when.. At times just go out alone just to have a ice cream at swensens lol or buy ingredients come home cook n enjoy my "Rojak" cooking haha
haha.. i'm playing smurfs in my iphone now.. really mus find things to do to keep oneself occupied. having backache recently, then feel like taking up yoga... but, sigh, abit lazy..
I'm not that type of sporty outgoing person, so I hardly do any exercise.. My best exercise is to go shopping lol.. At times I wil go ktv sing n train my breathing for during labor pain relief,as long as the ktv room is not so loud,it's ok for baby inside.. I did not go for any of those courses for labor n baby take care 101.. I did not know where to find those courses back then, so just learn from books or online info.. I used to do knitting during my teens days,wanted to knit a pair of mittens n booties n a hat for my son back then, but was always feeling so tired that I did not even start lol.. Got alot of stuff I wanted to do but always lazy during my 1st pregnancy haha but now my time is so occupied by toddler lol..
I dont't have toddler yet, so still dont't know about the troubles. Hehe! Will plan to put the baby in my parent's care when i go out shop shop.
For me,most of the time I look after my kid myself, only when my parents days off then they will help me take care..hubby n sisters come home early will also help.. Been quite a difficult job since I'm pregnant with 2nd n 1st is at so active stage.. Wanting to put him in childcare soon when I'm in my 3rd trimester,just in case my 2nd wants to come out anytime or it's getting too hard for me to handle toddler n my tummy haha,still considering..
Wow, need to be so rush? Well, I've heard kids who are exposed to other kids more frequently learn stuff faster like socializing n getting sick too, crawls n talk sooner.. dont know if it's true haha