This is a discussion on Overdue Pregnancy within the Third Trimester forum, part of the Pregnancy Forum category; Originally Posted by shinexuan Hi Mummies, I am currently overdue for my pregnancy. My EDD was suppose to be 11 ...
your little gal still comfortably lying in your cosy womb ar? hehe...think your baby is too comfortable inside.
May I know who is your gynae and where will you be delivering at?
I feel worried for you. It is past your 40th weeks but she still dont't to come out and greet you.. Hmm, when you went for your last check, is she of a good weight, did your gynae check for your dilation? Have you dilated ? I think these may be some early indications that you are ready for delivery?
I still have about 7 more weeks to go before my gal is due. I am very worried that my pelvic bone wont open as my mum had c-sect to deliver both her child. I am a c-sect baby.. hehe...as much as possible i would want to have natural birth so that I can experience the mother's nature way of delivering their children, although i will haev to experience immense pain.. (Pls wish me luck!)
maybe you can try some of the ways mentioned by some mummies here by having sex? hehe i heard also that it may help to speed up or induce labour ;P But this also depend if it is comfortable for both you and your hubby
I think you can try doing more squatting as it may help to exercise your impt muscles groups crucial for labour.
Now I still use the squatting when I go toilet. If pooing i will try to use the sitting pan as i tends to experience numbness if i squat too long...
*little angel shinexuan, pls be good and come out soon so that your mummy and daddy can see your lovely you and play with you... hee, sayang sayang and hugs!*
Pls rest more and well since you have not been resting well..
Must remb to eat well too ok? relax yourself and play some nice classical music.. baby like classical music and it helps in their mental development
Take care har and update us on your status again
Hi Ping26, wow so yours also overdue... ok... mine is a baby gal.... i s yearn to see her soon! haha but i know mummies sure say after baby come out, you yearn for her to go back! ahhaha...
Hi IIyachoo, YA me too... after i wake up to pee, i have difficulties go back to zzz again... just 2 nites ago, i didnt sleep AT ALL... gosh... really feel that last few wks of preg is toughest in the whole preg jounrey... but i will be strong!
Hi BbpHir3, hee, both num 1 and (*shy) num 2 also tried ... but still nothing.. acty my baby alrdy in postion and gynea even said good postion and ready for labour... just that i have not dilate and no painful contractions only... sianz... for walking... i will go out and walk around as much as can, but will be easily tired after a while.. so gotta sit down freq... haha.. but i will still try to walk more..
Hi angelwendy, heee... yup did it and it was a 'long lost feeling found back'! hahah... *shy*...
Hi mosaic, wah yours really confusing. esp the diff bet these 2 dates are quite a lot.. you stil have not give birth yet? when you go check ups, gynea got say you whch week alrdy? did you check with gynea which edd is the more accurate one? dont worry too much gal.. anw, if you have give birth, 24th dec is just next week... labour shld be near liaoz... you can do it gal!
Hi izanyzam & Loala Bear Mummy, yup after i read that, i was a little worried for a moment... going to see gynea later. baby shld be fine i think. will check with gynea later ya..
Hi adlieyn, oh... you also overdue ya? which wk you at now? when you going in to be induce gal? all the best ya!! Update us k...
Wish you all the best ya... hope that your gal will be out soon... so that you & your hubby can hugz her in your arm.... JIa you... hang on k... i will pray for you...
Dear all, just seen gynea and he mentioned that i have dilated a little (1.6cm).. last wk was 0cm..
So its better than nothing... so now, me gotta wait til monday, if still nothing, i will admit hospital to induce... but his feel is that i will give birth before monday... really hope so!
good to hear that. do keep us updated of your situation alrite. pretty soon you'll be able to see the bouncy little one. so get the cameras ready!
Yah, do keep us posted when the princess arrives!!
Really sorry as i think i missed out on your reply! Pai seh...
last wk when i went check up, i was 0cm dilated (so stressful and disheartening esp when i was alrdy 40th wk preggy)... but thank God, few days ago i went for check up, i was 1.6cm dilated! better than nothing! haha.. was quite happy that at least there are some progress..
then my gynea said my next appt will be coming monday... if by then i still not deliver yet, will admit hos to induce birth liaoz... but his feel is i will give birth before monday... *fingers crossed!* hahaha...
something funny to share with you all... i have a colleague who randomly facebk message me and said she has a strong feel that i will deliver on 20th, then was chatting online wiht my ex-mgr, she got a feel that i will deliver on sat... then last nite went dinner with some church frns and 1 of them has a feel that i will deliver on 22nd (Tues)... hahaha with so many different ones prophesising on my baby's birth date... i feel 'honoured'! kekeke... they are all so concern...
but well, whther sat, sun, mon or tues, i hope she come out real soon! her daddy and mummy super willing to welcome her liaoz! hahaha..
oh and wrt the sex thingy... keke yup, we have been trying this wk, hoping that can really induce birth... *shy* *shy*...
i have been drinking raspberry leaf tea which we heard cna induce birth too.. try better then no try .. hee..
classical music ... got let her listen but seldom.. hmm.. maybe i shld continue to let her listen.. good idea! haha..
acty if can i also no want c sec... i am also c sec baby cos my mum had me after 35 and she was having some health prob... so no choice.. but for my case, i am healthy so if can i really no want c sec .. :I
and yes, will surely post here to update all mummies once i give birth! hopefully with pic too! Thanks gal!!!
You alos add oil ya... 7 more wks.. very fast one... the last few wks, you gotta 'tong' & torlerate ya? might not be as easy alrdy... but i thnk its worth the wait and 'sufferings' ha! all the best to you too gal!
Hi tinkerball & Koala bear mummy, yes, finaly last lap i will GO all the way for it! would love to meet my baby gal soon!!
Hee... today wake up was wondering you give birth .. haha.. but still see you here... anyway.. i'm sure she is coming out very soon... so remember to prepare yourself for the pushing ya... i hope for the best for you & your baby...
Thanks for concern! Really appreciate it lotz!!
hee.. im always excited whenever someone's baby is about to popped. its like im the one who popped. hahahaha
Dear mummies, i thought i started to have early signs of labours at 5am... cos it was very freq contractions followed up lower back ache and menses cramp feel at my lower ab... this went on for 1 hr plus.... and seriously thought i am into it!... but...after a short sleep, i woke up not feeling anything liaoz... i think this is call false labour...and it has happended for the 2nd time..
a little disheartned acty.. thought gonna give birth today or at most tomorrow.. but like no more AGAIN... sadz...
why other ppl go into labour so easy, but not me??? others have the pain so easy, but i want the pain to come, yet, it just dont come.. if not pain come but false labour.. somemore cheat me TWICE!!
so sianz ... i have really done everything i can... even doin things that i dont like, but in order to let the pain come, i do it still, but still like this... very disheartening... told my hubby last nite that i dont wanna give birth after this liaoz... its too xin ku alrdy... really..
you dont be dishearten ok... you will not regret when you see you little cute one! seriously (though I have not given birth to my gal) but I am sure the satisfaction and joy of seeing your gal will make you want more babies! hehe
JIA YOU!!!! little shinexuan, be good and listen to mummy. dont let daddy and mummy wait too long...
My dear ~ SAYANG ~ dont't be dishearted k... i know is xin ku... but when you feel that... just imagine your baby cute looking face ya... is all worth it... but hang on k.... it will be very very soon that your gal gal will come & meet you... maybe your gal feel so safe being in mummy tummy... JIA YOU!!!
dont't be so dishearten alright?
I'm sure that your little gal will be arriving really soon. When you see your little gal smiling at you, I'm sure you'll forget all about the "xin ku". *hugs* dont't worry.
The seniors in my family say to keep on walking, it'll help in your dilation as well.
Hey it ok dont be too stress about it take it easy... that time i also have this kind of pain like mense cramp but also false alarm think it was braxton hicks but, When you saw your little one your feeling will feel diff.. For me i actually wanna induced but end up go for emergency c-sect which i dont wish to and i cry till i told my hubby i dont wish to go for c-sect, but no choice so when i half sleep go for c-sect and i saw my baby boy come out i was so happy to see him and it really worth it no mater how tough it was! Must be a brave mummies! Have a smooth labour. Jia You, you can make it !
Last time when my boy was due in a weeks time....i had sexual intercourse with my hubby n my boy was out earlier by a week.....i ever read in a article the having sexual intercourse helps .....
Our baby girl was also delivered via c-section on 41 weeks.
No dilation, no engagement. went induce but birth canel only open by 2cm. contractions were not strong, not regular.
in the end, baby decide to poo inside and c-section emergency.
have faith the baby will know when to come. close monitoring and communicatn with gynae is impt. understand the options you have so that when it is time to make a decision, you will not be confused.
good luck. all will be ok, dont worry
btw, makin love helps too (if you are in the mood!)