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When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

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Old 25-01-2008, 03:22 PM   #1
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When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

When did you and your gynae start talking about your birthing options e.g. use of epidural, booking of anaesthetists etc?

My last appt was at 30 wks, and I still haven't talked to my gynae about all these yet. Next appt is at 34 wks. Is that too late?
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Old 25-01-2008, 08:23 PM   #2
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

for me, i don't think so. i think next appt is just nice or maybe wait till you 36weeks also can ^^
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

only discussed when i was in the delivery ward...screaming in pain. heehee
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

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only discussed when i was in the delivery ward...screaming in pain. heehee
haha same !!! LOL ^5
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Old 27-01-2008, 12:55 PM   #5
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

When i change my 2nd gynae i already mention to him on the 1st appt which i was 28wks pregnant tt i wanna opt for c-section but he hope i reconsider n make decision by 32-34wks.

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Old 28-01-2008, 10:16 AM   #6
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

But I think decision make nearer to due date is better cos it'll not be expensive?

mine told me to make decision when I was 6mths preg so when I was having my mild contraction then doc change to ceaseran cos I dilating too slow..in the end I pay for both natural & ceaseran...
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Old 28-01-2008, 03:13 PM   #7
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

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haha same !!! LOL ^5
yi yang yi yang....lol, low 5...
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But I think decision make nearer to due date is better cos it'll not be expensive?

mine told me to make decision when I was 6mths preg so when I was having my mild contraction then doc change to ceaseran cos I dilating too slow..in the end I pay for both natural & ceaseran...
i thought needed to top up only?? how come you pay for both? what kind of choices can we choose from btw?
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Old 28-01-2008, 05:32 PM   #9
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Re: When to discuss with gynae about birth options?

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But I think decision make nearer to due date is better cos it'll not be expensive?

mine told me to make decision when I was 6mths preg so when I was having my mild contraction then doc change to ceaseran cos I dilating too slow..in the end I pay for both natural & ceaseran...
huh? yah lor..why must you pay for both? shldn't u pay only for what you used in the end?

thanks for all your replies. guess i'm not exactly too late. I didn't go for antenatal classes, so don't have a birth plan either. maybe I'm too jin zhang, but I just thought that this kind of thing should at least have some sort of discussion ard 30-32 wks, just in case the baby comes out earlier. otherwise, if that happens, I'll be totally clueless what to do.
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