hi, im not a mummy yet but for what i've seen thru experiences of my closest cousins 1 of them dont have breast milk at all after birth n she got very bad engorgement n down with high fever bcz of that. My aunt says maybe its due to stress that e breast milk wont come out .. End up her dear son doesnt got a single sip of her breast milk. Partly also bcz she's a first time mummy n she got hard time handling it as she's afraid to carry the baby too much as she says that baby looks fragile n afraid she might drop dem n she got a terrible labour.. So for tis first time mummy alot of terrible thing is running in her mind so i tink that affects her breast milk not wanting to come out.. So baby is now on FM, NAN.. The otr cousin i have, she's very relax as she got a very supportive hubby n inlaw so on full BF.. I tink it shud be all in our mind that play apart..