so i ASSUME you are saying those who had kids before marriage are not smart?
well, im sure you're offending many mothers here already.
FYI, if you READ properly, my point of smart is the ABUSE part, nth to do with having kids before marriage, pls do read and understand properly before making out of point remarks.
so you are also saying im stupid by not being with my ex? you dont even know anything that happen, so pls, do READ again, or ASK if you want to.
i agree we are just listing out the future possibilities, but pls go back and read the first post you have posted and how negative and offensive it is to some ppl out here.
perhaps you are not in our positions, thus its impossible for you to actually realise the situation, we are advising her on what we've been thru, not what we assume will happen.