Congrats... Wow.. you must be very proud of yourself. Giving birth to a 4.4kg somemore natural birth. Did you do it with the help of epidural?
Well.. I am a 1st time mum..in my 17wk+ ... yes... I want to go for natural delivery without epidural. Why I want... cos' 1st I am scared of the needle than the painful contraction. haha .. I am very determine to guide my baby using my strength to push him out without any help... I want to feel the contraction... haha ... that's a feeling that you get to feel once a life time. ( I only want 1 child).
As for pain relief method.. haha .. I ever told my hubby that I will laugh out heartly while pushing my baby.. Cos' Laughing helps me more to relax... than using the strength to grab anything or bang myself on the bed... hehe..