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    Recommendations needed for abortion

    Hi Mummies,
    Last edited by phlyeka; 29-01-2011 at 12:21 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Hi Mummies,

    I'm a newbie here. Appreciate if anyone can recommend a good, reliable, "non-judgmental" gynae for the above procedure. Female preferred.

    Currently am looking at WC Cheng at Thomson Medical Center and Dr Jen Shek Wei at AMK. Any reviews on Dr Jen or recommendation for any gynae in WC Cheng is also much appreciated. Thanks.

    I found out I was pregnant from 2 pregnancy tests I took a few days ago. Maybe baby is in 4th-5th week. Hubby & me are going thru some personal problems and we decided not to keep this baby. This is my first pregnancy tho. Many thanks again.
    friend, think twice before you act... I miscarriage the 1st one and later tried for so long then have a second one... Being pregnant is not all easy... Look down more forum for we mummies who tried for so long but without success.

    I can't give you any comments as this is your life...Just have a second thougth...

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Hi Mummies,

    I'm a newbie here. Appreciate if anyone can recommend a good, reliable, "non-judgmental" gynae for the above procedure. Female preferred.

    Currently am looking at WC Cheng at Thomson Medical Center and Dr Jen Shek Wei at AMK. Any reviews on Dr Jen or recommendation for any gynae in WC Cheng is also much appreciated. Thanks.

    I found out I was pregnant from 2 pregnancy tests I took a few days ago. Maybe baby is in 4th-5th week. Hubby & me are going thru some personal problems and we decided not to keep this baby. This is my first pregnancy tho. Many thanks again.
    why would you want to terminate a healthy pregnancy? hmm... the baby is innocent

    anyway Dr Jen is good. Went to see him for some female issues sometime back. But pls note that there's always risk in abortion procedures and please... think it over again...

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    me too had 2 miscarriage n think the d & c procedure not properly done.. after 2nd miscarraige i stopped ovulation (Totaally no period) for 2 years .. before i managed to conceive again. me too had a terrible marriage until baby came along n everything changed... for the better of course.

    Pls dont abort... give him/her a chance to live! a baby can give you strength you never knew existed to face any challenges in life.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Hi Mummies,

    I'm a newbie here. Appreciate if anyone can recommend a good, reliable, "non-judgmental" gynae for the above procedure. Female preferred.

    Currently am looking at WC Cheng at Thomson Medical Center and Dr Jen Shek Wei at AMK. Any reviews on Dr Jen or recommendation for any gynae in WC Cheng is also much appreciated. Thanks.

    I found out I was pregnant from 2 pregnancy tests I took a few days ago. Maybe baby is in 4th-5th week. Hubby & me are going thru some personal problems and we decided not to keep this baby. This is my first pregnancy tho. Many thanks again.

    Hi phlyeka...hmm listern to us...think thrice before you did anything or decide anything...baby isn't easy to come...and since she/he have come why not accept??as you mention dat you and your hubby gg thru personal probs...rite...understand...bt well baby is innocent..and no matter what...tok thru it...and also solve...hmm..i totally disagree with abortion actually...if there is still a way out why chose abortion???even me as a single MTB...at this age...i also wnt think of this...coz baby is life...is urs...and since you have made him or her to visit tis world...then y want to kill him or her wen he or she have not seen the world???you creat and you terminate???hmm...is a life....think it carefully....things can be solve.....
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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Dear Mummies....
    Thank you so much for e advice...
    Last edited by phlyeka; 29-01-2011 at 12:22 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    phlyeka, i'm so proud of you that you chose to keep the baby in the end.
    If your marriage is really troubling you, i think now is a good time to work on it. it gives you more motivation to solve certain issues. try seeing a marriage counsellor if you need help. sometimes they can be the 'mediator' btw husband n wife and also it'll teach both of you how to give n take and make the relationship work

    I wish you all the best!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Thanks stonston
    Last edited by phlyeka; 29-01-2011 at 12:23 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by stupidyeye View Post
    Hi phlyeka...hmm listern to us...think thrice before you did anything or decide anything...baby isn't easy to come...and since she/he have come why not accept??as you mention dat you and your hubby gg thru personal probs...rite...understand...bt well baby is innocent..and no matter what...tok thru it...and also solve...hmm..i totally disagree with abortion actually...if there is still a way out why chose abortion???even me as a single MTB...at this age...i also wnt think of this...coz baby is life...is urs...and since you have made him or her to visit tis world...then y want to kill him or her wen he or she have not seen the world???you creat and you terminate???hmm...is a life....think it carefully....things can be solve.....
    Smilessss...
    Last edited by phlyeka; 29-01-2011 at 12:24 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Thanks stonston,

    I'm so looking fwd now... e best part I was told my baby is due on 14th feb next your.... I only regretted that I almost made a harsh decision which I know I will regret for e rest of my life... Thanks again....
    Just saw this thread... am glad that you made the decision to keep the baby. I feel that sometimes we dont really fully understand what love is till we have our own child. It's a life-changing event definitely! Welcome to motherhood!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Stupidyeye,

    How to paste those countdown calendar like yours??? I did mine but I got prob pasting... keeps prompting invalid url... sigh
    Hi Phlyeka babe~here a cut and paste from my earlier post:

    How to Place Baby/Kids Tickers in Mummysg Forum:

    1st step :
    Go to Lilypie or any other tickers websites once you generate the code Cut and Paste only the

    "PseudoHTML, UBBCode™ or BBCode
    Used on many message boards that dont't allow HTML"

    It should read something like this (i have removed some brackets so that it shows as a command line instead of an image, for you as a guide) :

    url=http://lilypie.com img]http://by.lilypie.com/lp9op8/.png[/img][/url

    2nd step : In mummysg forum

    Go to <User CP>

    then click <Edit Signature>

    There are 3 dialogue boxes when you click <edit signature> =

    1) <Preview> 2) <
    Edit Signature> 3) <Signature Picture>

    Paste the entire code from lilypie into the <Edit Signature> dialogue box.

    And its DONE!!!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    having read your posts and eventually yr decision to keep the little life i am happy for you.

    have you managed to sort things out with husb?

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Dear Mummies....
    I've decide to keep e baby
    I'm in tears! I am so happy for you and the baby!

    It may be a bumpy road ahead but I pray that love and healing angels surrounds you and your baby. *hugz*

    がんばってください!! (Ganbatte!)
    Last edited by shiseru; 02-07-2009 at 02:08 PM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Dear Mummies....
    Thank you so much for e advice... It's a real wake up call for me.... After goin thru e pains, aches & all, I've decide to keep e baby.... I've just consulted Dr Chen Han Li of Specialist Womens' Clinic at Yishun... Baby's in a healthy 5th week for now

    Again, many thanks ladies... see you around in MummySG
    Happy that you're into your 5th week with baby in good health. Very glad that you have decided to have the baby. It may not be easy but hope things will get better as you and hubby work things out.
    When I first found out I was preggy after many years, I was not very happy coz I have gotten used to my life style. But as the months went by, and when you go to gynae and see your baby, you will come to love your baby more and more and see baby growing. I never thought I would be interested in a life of babies and kids....but eversince I had my little girl....it changed my life. You will find each day that your life is filled with love for this little person and you would want to give your very best. Guess its just mother's instinct whether or not we are interested in kids.
    Hang in there and look forward to a wonderful journey! Congrats to you!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    its happy that you keep your baby with you finally, i been done 3 abortion before , the most regret thing thing i've done , the forth time pregnant again , now my boy is almost 2 month old , you will never regret to keep him..

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Thanks stonston,

    I'm so looking fwd now... e best part I was told my baby is due on 14th feb next your.... I only regretted that I almost made a harsh decision which I know I will regret for e rest of my life... Thanks again....

    darling...thanks god dat you think it again!!!!and yesh...you made 1 good thing...which is you kep and save a life!!!!!wao.....so gan jiong for me....reali worry dat you still decide to abort your lill precious....hmm...do not wori ya...every mummy here zhi chi ni!!!jia you!!!!
    all mummy wasn't simple...same for you too...alrite???so werk for it man!!!!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Glade to know that you decided to keep the baby. Look forward to whole pregency, you will enjoy it and seeing the baby growing bigger and healthy is worth it. Once you can feel the baby movement it will be even more exciting. ^^

    If you need any support or wants some advice can always come to this forum, there are a lot of helpful mummies here willing to help you out.

    Take care and enjoy ^^

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Although I have not given you any advice on this issue but am glad that you decided to keep your baby. Trust me if you go thro' the abortion, I guarantee you that i will hunt you for life & you will never forgive yourself for making such move. trust me I had friend that been thro' this.
    Last edited by redjn; 05-07-2009 at 01:00 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by CanCanMum View Post
    having read your posts and eventually yr decision to keep the little life i am happy for you.

    have you managed to sort things out with husb?
    Hi redjn,

    Thanks so much....
    Last edited by phlyeka; 29-01-2011 at 12:24 AM.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Hi redjn,

    Thanks so much.... yes, we've sorted it out.... initially I can see that he's unwilling to keep it but after a while, seeing me in my stoopid cranky mood, he said that it tickles him at times... & he believes its not easy for me too.... true enuf, this baby really brings our bond closer...
    phlyeka babe~~~you r replying to me or redjn babe huhhh?

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Hi redjn,

    Thanks so much.... yes, we've sorted it out.... initially I can see that he's unwilling to keep it but after a while, seeing me in my stoopid cranky mood, he said that it tickles him at times... & he believes its not easy for me too.... true enuf, this baby really brings our bond closer...
    good to hear that, I sincerely hope that you will have a happy ending & that you will be receiving your baby with joy & happiness.

    Quote Originally Posted by CanCanMum View Post
    phlyeka babe~~~you are replying to me or redjn babe huhhh?
    ai yo same same ... reply you or me 不要计较啦. as long as everything is well for them now.

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Yesh! i am glad to know you have decided to keep the baby! Have a smooth pregnancy! =)

    wow, your EDD on valentine's day? easy to remember

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    Wow, EDD 14th Feb, could be a baby cow or baby tiger

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    good luck!
    stay strong!

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    Re: Recommendations needed for abortion

    Quote Originally Posted by phlyeka View Post
    Dear Mummies....
    Thank you so much for e advice... It's a real wake up call for me.... After goin thru e pains, aches & all, I've decide to keep e baby.... I've just consulted Dr Chen Han Li of Specialist Womens' Clinic at Yishun... Baby's in a healthy 5th week for now

    Again, many thanks ladies... see you around in MummySG
    Hi Phlyeka,

    Although I just get to see your post only now but afterall so happy to learnt that you have made the correct decision in keeping the baby and with so much supports from the rest of the mummies' advices and now plus my support to you...

    you will soon get to enjoy every moment of the growing up process with your baby n family and in the end you will be glad to see that from baby growing up to be a toddler n finally to a grown-up. All these process are precious n memorable n be ready to capture all these process down for your memories in future n i'm sure you will definitely enjoy it...

    And what a good EDD you have got, your baby will be out in time to collect angbaos and also celebrate the chinese new yr with you n your family n it's also definitely a great gift for your Valentine's Day... last of all, have an enjoyable motherhood ahead n seeing your decision in the post really makes my day! (Haha, btw, sorry for being so long-winded) =)

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