Teenager Pregnency

[tommyBoi]

Originally Posted by Carol

Lol ! No la. Start with T ends with Y. Know alrdy ?

Sound like me.. Tommy.. haha.. difinitely not me lar, i wont said that.

[tommyBoi]

Originally Posted by Carol

When I jokingly ask one of my Dh's friends what will he do if one day the girl whom he had a fling with gets pregnant. He still can happily says ask her abort lah. Im so angry man. Seriously what do some guys take girls for and how inhuman they're to kill their own child all for the sake of fun.

u mention fling? hmm.. to me if it is fling, i think there is nothing wrong wif this guy. That ger shld know the rules and shld have insist the guy to wear condom.

[tommyBoi]

Originally Posted by ^Mami_Jazz^

At wat age will u intro to him leh??

at the age he has a gf, but difinitely must be above 16..

[LoVeS]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

Actually u r in a better position than us to share ur experience wif ur kid next time..
Btw, how do u prevent that to happen?
For me, If i know my teen son has a gf, i make sure he alway has a condom in his wallet.. and i will teach him wat is responsibility.

same method i tot of giving my ds but when i told dh abt it he was like

[CynCyn]

If the more u object them to have a bf the more they will rebel . So I won't object if my daughter has a bf .But definitely give her sex education .

My parents did not teach me about sex education so it was curiousity that triggers out it .

I've went through this stage myself so I'd probably understand and wont object to it .

It's better to start saving up now just incase if it happens . LOL !

Nowadays youngsters so open already . Sooner or later they sure wanna ''test water'' out of curiosity .

But personally my preference is if pregnant at 16yrs old is kinda too young . I'd get a shock out of my life . If 18yrs old I guess she will be more mature in handling such issues .

[CynCyn]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

Sound like me.. Tommy.. haha.. difinitely not me lar, i wont said that.

Nah , not Tommy but Timothy .
Ooops ! =p

[CynCyn]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

u mention fling? hmm.. to me if it is fling, i think there is nothing wrong wif this guy. That ger shld know the rules and shld have insist the guy to wear condom.

If it's a fling case both parties should know the consequences . If the guy insists on not using a condom and the girl gets preg. Both parties should be responsible . It's not worth it to have a fling .

[sal]

My little gal who is turning 7 years old is already asking me when can she get a boyfriend.

Told her she can get one if she goes into Uni.

She can tell me " mommy..by then i so old already..how to get boyfriend?"
Wonder where she get that idea from? and she bargained with me and says she will get a BF when she's 16. *faint*

Well...i've already given her the neccessay education. Next thing to do is pray she dun get into trouble at a young age.

[CynCyn]

Wow , children this days are getting smarter .

[XiaoXue]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

Same apply to Chinese. Many chinese young mum i met in my circle of life. The youngest mum i met is 16 yrs old.. She is 24 now and her kid is one yr older than mine...

*wink* me too...

[XiaoXue]

My PIL married when FIL is 18 & MIL is 21..

My own parents married when dad is 23 & mum is 17..

and we married when I'm 16 & DH is 18..

Elder sis married at 20 & BIL is 24..

I heard pple say.. It "run" in the family...

For me.. I'm lack of daddy love.. thus seeking BGR at very young age and DH & I ROM once i turn 16.. den I got preggy with DS who due 10 months later.. Pple tend to think married young = shot gun.. But at least it not in my case.. After being together for 6 years.. There's no reason on "why do we want to married young.." I no longer find any answer for this.. Just hope we can peacefully happily work towards our future & goals together...

In my point of view.. There's no minimum age limit to be a parent as long as you done all your part & be resposible for every single action you make.

But for my own son in future.. I hope he at least get good education background, finished his NS.. get a stable income job den get settle down... that will be like 23? hahahaha~!! But I believe this kind of things is not within our control and i'm not thinking "that" far yet~!! Let me settle for his P1 education 1st~ LOLs!

[XiaoXue]

Originally Posted by CynCyn

But personally my preference is if pregnant at 16yrs old is kinda too young . I'd get a shock out of my life . If 18yrs old I guess she will be more mature in handling such issues .

Cyn.. i think it really depend.. For me.. I go through alot with my mum when our family fall apart when I'm 11 years old.. Sometime it the upbringing that matter.. My mum taught me to be real indepedent.. I've been looking after my elder sis son when I'm 13 years old.. Till now, my elder nephew still call me xiaoxue mummy.. Alot of pple mentioned that I do not speak or think like ladies my age.. I think it the environment that "forced" me to grew up faster.. =)

[baobao]

me too me too! me same as XX. 16 preggy.
to me, its impt tat we sex educate our child. and upbringing is very impt. but if really one day he's 21, and wants to get parried becuz the gf is preggy, i'll be happy, at least i know he's willing to take the responsibilty and not like those other heartless guys who only know how to ask the gf to go for abortion!

[jedamum]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

Wah.. if one day he came home and tell u my gf is pregnent, wat will u do??

Mine also a boy but i will keep an eye on him, if really need to i will advise him to take preventive measures.

haha...i did asked dh before.
call me selfish, but the girl should have know how to protect herself cos she is at the losing end...or at least, their parents should have tell her to be careful. boys will always be boys, so it is up to the girls to stop all these nonsense.

[jedamum]

Originally Posted by tommyBoi

Actually u r in a better position than us to share ur experience wif ur kid next time..
Btw, how do u prevent that to happen?
For me, If i know my teen son has a gf, i make sure he alway has a condom in his wallet.. and i will teach him wat is responsibility.

hey tommyboi, i think you should teach your boy about respecting the girl instead of giving him the permit to commit.