my 1st preg baby stopped its heartbeat at 11week. i cried badly and she just pass me tissue and said no point crying, no matter hw hard i cry, the heartbeat will not come back. Sounds very hard hearted and both my hub and me were very unhappy.
the next day we requested to go for another scan before doing the OP to take away the baby. Though it was last min appt, but she still see us immediately when we reached the clinic and her attitude kinda changed. She explained to me that it's a fact that nth can bring the heartbeat back and said she will not do D&C for mummies with healthy babies no matter hw much they offer her. and that was when we change our view on her. and of cos, she waived off all the charges (excpet blood test).
after a week, i went back for review checkup. she was very wry that i might get into depression and taught my family what to look out for.
when i was preg with dear son, i went back to her. she knew that I'm very panicky due to my 1st MC case and she has been very patient with me, ans all my qns (even the most silly ones). And when my hub call her up (via Thomson Medical Center line) during midnight, she was also very patient.
After I delivered, she was also very concern about dear son and me. same thing, she is very wry that i might get into Post natal depression.
I guess her bad point is, she is a very frank person, she just shoot her mouth off w/o thinking at times. but think back, what she said was true, maybe she just dont know the 'right' tone to console her patients who suffer from MC. =)