I was at Kandang Kerbau Hospital for my first. Now having my second and still with Kandang Kerbau Hospital. Mine's Jasmine Mohd. Very warm smile and answers questions patiently. Was there for my delivery too and thought her presence was very assuring for me.
Not sure what you mean by asking your friend to come back for check-ups. It's routine to have check-ups when you are preggie...??
Or do you mean a gynae for ART since you mentioned to help conceive? If it's for ART, it'll also take some time to properly diagnose where the problem lies and recommend a suitable course of action. My colleague was with singapore general hospital and it took a while too.