This is a discussion on baby cry every night when want to sleep within the Newborn Baby and Infant Care (up to 12 months old) forum, part of the Growing Up & Parenting category; ever since i start going back to work after 4 months maternity leave,my baby will cry every time he want ...
ever since i start going back to work after 4 months maternity leave,my baby will cry every time he want to sleep every night.
i do not know how my in laws take care in the morning that makes him like this.
miss you and doesn't want to z?
i am not breastfeeding my baby.
ya.maybe due to morning in laws play with him a lot never let him sleep.cos they always like that.
cnt be miss me then cry cos i go back he also never show sign of excitment.
after in law take care, baby change a lot. now harder to make him sleep.and i cannot say anything to them.wait husband not happy also.somemore staying with them now. very difficult.i have to endure the way they handle my baby.and i hate it.
jia you! We're sending our kid to infant care. Find it better than letting mother in law take care. Sometimes the way they take care and our intended ways are different and may end up having friction. Mine keep wanting baby to wear two piece shirt & shorts. I let him wear shirt no shorts kanna her mumbling & her complain to hubby. I let him wear romper she say too tight different to remove etc.. I let him wear disposable diapers she say no good, nappies are better. I use the milk bottles, she say not good teats too short but hey hubby and I are doing fine feeding him and it's only her who has trouble (I think). I intended to try out nappy and let boy wear a mixture of rompers and 2 pcs but after so many mumbling & not too sure if there were many complains, I got fed up and handle boy my own way. I do away with thoughts of nappy or cloth diapers and let him wear rompers most of the time. Sounds rebellious.. lol... But end of the day, it's me who washes his clothes, change his diapers, feed him, take care of him, buy his clothes. So, whatever makes my life easier to take care of him will be the way.
But, must still thank her for taking care of household chores for the home coz I didn't manage to help her out in most areas.
my dear son used to be like this when I return to workforce after my 4 maternity leaves.
He just refused to sleep at nite or rather when I finally tuck him to sleep, he will wake up many times in the middle of the nite just wanting mw to carry him. He'll kp looking at me and refused to sleep! So I ended quitting my job to take care of him full time loh.
He get better after that and dint wake up often in the middle of the nite anymore. Guess he dont wanna you to work and wanna disturb you to catch your attention. This is what my son did to me loh..
As for the way your in law take care of your son, try speaking to your husband nicely about this and let him know that its hard for you to juggle btwn work and taking care of dear son at nite.
Hope everthing goes well for you. : )
my baby is not in good hands.they cannot handle baby.
in laws only know how to play baby.they dont know how to take care of baby.why baby cry they dont know how to go find out. never change pamper as i told them to.baby bkside soak till red.
i have spoken to my husband many times of any problems that ive faced.but only ended up he will scold me and now started to shout at me.me and my husband quarrel many times because of in laws handling baby. husband want to save $ so he die die dont want to hire nanny or baby sitter.
i think better to send to infant care... now can use baby CDA acct to pay.. so is cheaper.. not like last time.. so ex...
i believe he is over stimulated thus fuss so much at night.
frm the way your inlaws tc of your child, maybe you wanna consider infant care or a nanny.