for bath.. it depends.. sometimes before sometimes 1hr after milk...
but parent in law ask me not to shower him "´mmediately" when he wake up * open his eyes*
usually he shower about 11-12pm++
his 1st first is about 8.30-9am
day time: put graham on sofa or bed w supervision... in fact i thinking to buy a swing rocker.. but now he almost 3mths .. maybe abit wasted though..