only 9 weeks....y do you want to stop? stress from mother in law??? going back to work??
do you hav a close helper - sister/mum/maid/mother in law/etc to help?
my 2 bbs preferred to latch than use teats. so same thing they refuse to drink from bottle (even if its bmilk) -- i latched them till they r 6mths & 15mths respectively
the only way i found that works is that you hav to be away from them from sight or sometimes from the house (if your baby can sense/smell your presence!)
i usually go to another room to express milk (baby crying also triggers letdown mah )
there's no magic so gotta try daily at fixed time till baby accepts bottle teat
i suggest to try the 1st feed of the day (before baby wakes up to cry) when baby is still sleepy & for sure baby won't drink full feed so dont waste bmilk
what i did was to start with nuk latex teat and feed when baby is still blur blur from the night sleep
if it doesn't work, you gotta get help from someone else/dear husband/mother in law to feed as your breasts r like magnets to baby (natural instrincts)
my maid help me on this -- its not easy but gotta keep on trying cos i hav to return to work