for me, i take care of my boy myself 'cause mother in law doesnt stay in sg n my parents r still working. but i'm thinking of letting my coll's mother in law help me take care of my boy (mayb 2-3 working days), together w my coll's kid since they r just 1+months apart. so i can spend more time on work. but feel guilty to my boy. also prefer to take care on my own so i can witness his every 1st action. but bo bian.