Hello there! I recently came across an article from the internet which discusses the various ways of tackling temper tantrum. I too, am a mother of 3, 2 of them boys and I think the content it rather true from my experiences. Couple of tips just to highlight:
-Be in control of the situation as you are the adult.
-Let your child know you love him.
-Watching signs of overstressing your child.
You can read the full article here: Tantrums | BabyCenter