Jan 2013 my son is goin child care but now he is take care by my mother in law.. Sometime I also stress and angry about it.. As when I bf my girl I can hear my son crying yelling outside.. Sometime I eating my mum cooking and my father in law playing his phone..
maybe you can consider child care .. Working father have subsidy .. you can check out.. If not hire a nanny to your house.. Can help you in cooking n look after your elder while you bf / rest