This is a discussion on Do you spare the rod? within the General Parenting Discussion forum, part of the Growing Up & Parenting category; cane ... still they not scare of me... somemore can say mummy cane one not as painful as daddy..... sigh.... ...
cane ... still they not scare of me... somemore can say mummy cane one not as painful as daddy..... sigh.... so almost give up canning ... leave it to my husband to do it.....
She's also considered my niece, tamarind, if I can't judge her, y does the teacher has the rights to judge her. Y bother about your dear daughter's behaviour as judged by her teacher since you r ok with it??
I'm not trying to say that you r wrong to tink it's not right to physically discipline kiddo, I'm trying to tell you that different ways r used on different kids... There's no one correct way of disciplining a kid... It all depends on the mindset of the parents n the character of the kid... I hope I'm not being offensive here...
Sumtimes when angry will smack dear son's butt
However when i hear him scolding others that, one glare and he will keep quiet. LOL.
Caning or what not, is not the main point as long as its not abuse and excessive. Explanation is still extremely important. After caning, you have to tell him why is he wrong. Or else you cane and cane, but he doesn't know what wrong he did!
i just hope my baby doesn't grow up scolding vulgarities (no matter how mild) at THREE YEARS OLD.
I feel that reasonable caning is necessary at times to let your child know that what he's doing is wrong even after 1-2 times of warning. Sometimes, when my 4yr old dear daughter misbehave, usually I'll warn her 1st. If she still repeats (which she seldom), I will warn the second time. If still continue, I will tell her the reason y I'm gonna smack/cane her 1st. Despite apologizing after the 3rd warning, also no use, smack. So next time she will rem my words clearly.
my niece is 1yr9mth old and my sister has so far spared the rod, even though she has slapped and started spitting at the maid recetnly. Her reason for not giving the ger the rod is that the ger still dont understand. I guess she is right, but if she gets older and still do that, i think she should be given the rod.