hi dont worry its normal. my son use to do that to me too. he cried very loudly but when my mother in law or hubby carry him, he was immed soothed. as a first time mother i fwlt just teh same as you, jealous coz as mother we feel very possessive thats y you and i feel the same way jealous and having thots that how come i am the mother my child is supposed to feel secure when i carry but its vice verse. is that how you also feel now right. after 6 months or so your child will look for you for everything and be attached to you just like my son. so dont worry. take it as a time for you to relax and let your hubby do the fathering for a while. sometimes its a coincidence the child feels comfort from the father or granparents.