At least your hubby ever do change your baby diaper or feed her. Mine never! Not a single diaper changed or bottle fed. He only play wit her and sing her songs.
I gave up asking him to help to take care our baby now as my baby alrdy 4,5mo.what to do, his reason is he scared baby might choke when he feed her and dont know how to put diaper on, bla bla bla...
But he did help with marketing. He go to supemarket to shop our groceries. At least he help in other part.