when i first started working, i always tell my husband. at first he was interested, then after a while he can't be bothered. then since he cant be bothered i stopped telling him. then recently he ask me how come i dont tell him about my work anymore, he dont even know anything anymore. got new colleagues, got anything interesting at work i dont tell him already. now he wants me to tell him (i suspect cos i'm quite close with a male colleague n he's starting to get jealous), but it's like you onli want me to tell you when you got 'motive'?