Hi im Dee Dee from Ang mo kio
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Hello, Muslim mummy, I'm Mona here from Pasir Ris, anyone wish to make friends with me ?
Hi im Dee Dee from Ang mo kio
hi Dee Dee, nice to know & meet you. I'm Chinese Convert Muslim, married, 1 year old girl,
are you OK to make friend with me ?
Im married with 2kids.... I have a 3mths old girl n 20mths boy...
Im a Malay Muslim.
why surprise ? because of I'm Chinese Convert Muslim or ?
where do you stay ? what do you do for a living ?
Yup... not many are willing to convert...
Im staying in ang mo kio... im a houswwife.. looking after my 2kids and my 2younger siblings...
thanks, you are the 1s Muslim friend to make friend with me.
yes, is not easy, my family side, this-agree too, they dont't want me anymore as their daughter if I really want to go ahead convert to Muslim,
now slowly they accepting me back N my hubby. I helping my hubby business N on the same time doing my own business too.
last time what are you working ?
How long have you convert as a muslim?
I was a camp trainer... enrichment programme trainer.. used to be salesperson... im so active in sports previously even though I dont the hijab...
1st muslim to make friend with you? you dont't have any malay muslim friends?
I can be a little busy.. so hope its ok if it takes me a while to reply you..
is OK, sometimes I'm busy too, running from 1 place to another place.
after I married my hubby, 2 years only, I'm still learning & adapting, not fully understand much about my new religion.
what I mean you are my 1st Muslim friend in MummySG Forum, I have Muslim staffs, colleagues & friends too.
I dont't wear Hijab too. I'm type of moderate, simple, casual & easy going lady.
I dont the hijabs... means im 1 of those wearing hijab....
You are still new.. even I myself a Muslim... there is still alot for me to learn...
sorry, I thought is dont't words.
yes, everyday is a new learning days to us too. but sometimes is very difficult for me to adapt it, those rules N order
as a wife, is it like that anyway ?
I mean the way of life, dressing, behaviour etc.
Like what? Could you specify? Maybe I could enlighten you abit... as a wife? Like?
as mention in my earlier message, lifestyle, dressing, behavior, maybe I'm used to my previous lifestyle before convert.
duty as a wife to her hubby no matter what too. then also circumcise, is it a must too ?
It takes sometime to adapt.... can I ask? Why do you convert?
is must when married to a Muslim man or woman, right.
Last edited by MonaLisaJune23; 11-12-2014 at 08:57 PM.
also because of love, I love him, willing to convert to be a Muslim, just to be with him always
but he not always with me too, sometime with another side.
There is where the problem lies... the reason why you are unable to adapt in Islam ways...
Because you convert out of loves.. loves for the guy...
In your heart.. islam is not there... you convert because you have to...
It is always best that you know about a religion 1st before you convert..
Islam is actually very easy n simple
What do you mean by he is always with another side?
yes is because of a must I need to convert to Islam just to love N be with him.
I beginning to learn N understand Isla but is not easy to adapt to a new religion, because of him, I'm willing too.
I'm his 2nd wife, I know he is married that time, the other side is his 1st wife.
currently she is staying with me due to her house under renovation (is already completed but she dont't want
to move back to her house only) she is giving me problems too, blaming me for something that I dont't think
is my problem infecting her. she treat my house as her own house, do whatever she wanted to do.
Have you try talking to your husband?