Borned May 2nd, 2000 - Died Nov 16th, 2007

[BunnyKiss]

This is the end of our journey together. And I'm glad, really really glad.

We met in Japan. Got married shortly after 6 months, mostly compulsiveness and naivety on my side. He is quick and bad tempered. A bang at the door and table may seem nothing to him, but it affected me greatly. I just kept quiet, all I could do was cry myself to sleep. Yet I was adamant he can change. Yet I was wrong, times and again. I began to realise my temper started to flare too. I no longer want to kept quiet and be bullied. So on one occasion I fought back, and received my first slap. It didn't stop from there, it was just the beginning. I should have left him, but I didn't coz I believe he can change if he wanted to. I didn't leave coz we were overseas, and being a housewife, I have absolutely no savings, couldnt even afford the flight ticket back.

The opportunity of getting freed finally arrived when we came back for a holiday. I took the risk. Stayed to look for a job. He followed suit 9 months later. Deep in my heart I knew, the marriage was not working. But not until the time we fought and he bare fist hit and fractured my arm, trying to strangle me, did I realised, it's not only affecting us, but the young child too. If we continued to stay together just for child, letting him witnesses all the fightings, is this better for him?

Enough is enough. Without hesitation, I filed for divorce.

Looking back, I never once regret the decision. For me, definitely the marriage has to go. My concern is just for the child. We both have our child access timing, and I realised whenever he's with me, I give him my quality time with him and the same goes with the daddy, coz subconciously we know we're not seeing the child 24x7. And the child is so much happier. And I'm very very GLAD I made the decision.

For now, I'm just a money digging tool, hopefully saving enough to buy our own flat, maybe another 1-2 yrs down the road.

[tommyBoi]

BK, After reading ur story, i feel happy for u to leave a man like him.. I know how is it like to live together wif a hot temper and violence man. Luckily u make the decision now than continue to suffer... as well as ur ds. Everyone sure to make mistake in life, the most important thing is to realise the mistake and learn from it. U definitely can continue to live happily without him. Remember that ur happiness is always lie in ur own hand, no one can take or control over it.. Cheers Bunny!!

Btw, is he a japanese??

[Angelmum]

What's Borned May 2nd, 2000 - Died Nov 16th, 2007??
I thot a child was born n died few yrs later

Thot u quoting a sad child's story, after reading den realised u r talking about yrself

[CynCyn]

Originally Posted by Angelmum

What's Borned May 2nd, 2000 - Died Nov 16th, 2007??
I thot a child was born n died few yrs later

Thot u quoting a sad child's story, after reading den realised u r talking about yrself

Haha , agree I thought what also ... =p

[BunnyKiss]

Jack in the box - "THINK OUT OF THE BOX"

not only ppl have day borned and died..

[tommyBoi]

Actually the title of this thread very unique la, i like that..

[LoVeS]

Originally Posted by Angelmum

What's Borned May 2nd, 2000 - Died Nov 16th, 2007??
I thot a child was born n died few yrs later

Thot u quoting a sad child's story, after reading den realised u r talking about yrself

Same initially i tot sum poor kid died or wat. Anyway it gd tt she move on wif divorce coz violence towards women are not to b tolerate !! Wife is to DOTE n LOVE not to HIT or VENT MACHINE.

[^Mami_Jazz^]

Hi Bunny,

let the moth be a history & look for a beautiful butterfly to fly with u Cheers !!!

Jiayou !!!

[BunnyKiss]

Originally Posted by ^Mami_Jazz^

Hi Bunny,

let the moth be a history & look for a beautiful butterfly to fly with u Cheers !!!

Jiayou !!!

LIKE THAT...yooohoo....

[jeSsie_Dz]

jiayou!!

hugsss....

[aby]

bE sTRONG!! Jia You!!!

[Celina]

Be strong..