hi dear, sorry to hear that.
hmm as of lawyer n maid thingy, im not sure so cant help you.
check with uncle sam, i think he shld have some contacts.
n as of the sch, dont worry, if the teachers r nice ppl, they wont treat your son differently. i mean, nth wrong to come from divorced family.
pin is from single family, n the principal n teachers still love her the same..
in fact, they principal also help me quite a bit on the sch fees.
whether you wanna state you r divorce or not, its up to you.
but it might be good to let the sch know, in any case, if your hubby come to the sch to fetch your son, they will know cannot let him take him away?
like in my case, i already inform the sch n that IF i never authorise that person to fetch my girl, they have to call me to verify.