if you have spare cash, you can go to any legal firm to get advise. Usually, a GOOD consultation cost between $50 - $100.
If you dont't have, you may want to talk to your MP during the weekly MP meetings
you can go to CASE (though CASE ONLY handles complains about products and services and give FREE consultation) to ask them if they know who you can turn to for FREE legal advise on such matters....
I grew up with such people around me.
the trick is, the more you do as they told, the more you'll be controlled.
The more you listen to that 'little voice' in your head, which is telling you what you fear, the more he will OVERpower you.
Take care dear.... take care....