What you mean by "accept your child but not the dad"? dad refers to the child's bio father??
For me, I'll let the guy know even before we get together a bf/gf, he and his family has to accept. if he/ his family cannot accept, dont waste time being together.
I'm hoping if i remarry, i can make do with the simple one, but but but....... i still wanna wear gown, for photo shoot only also better than nothing!