This is a discussion on single mums! within the Single Parents Support Group forum, part of the MummySG Special Group category; Originally Posted by ika_bella itx not a problem. but itx the person themself. if dey wn to convert to the ...
yea i did. still thinking of a way to remove it.
i want him to sign to give up kaipin.
UGH. i'll make him.
It's already very tough taking care of my baby even with his help. It must be extremely tough to do it alone. You gals deserve all the respect and best wishes..
Ting: I'm a little confused. You gotta 2 babies? I'm currently pregnant with a baby girl and single as well. By d way, I'm faith here. =)
By d way how you guys add in the ticker ?!
I tried but cannot!!! So irritated, argh!
i only got one baby . LOLS.
im single mum currently preg, not married due 2 religon too n i also decide not 2 stay in US as my husband is ABC..just need 2 ask if the baby is born n the surname shld follow mum or father?
Ting: Aiyo. I'm so confused from those previous msgs. thought you gotta 2 kids and is still single! Haha.
Rene: Hello! =) Have you been single for a long time? Were you once married? How old is your kid ?
Dragontooth: I guess it's really up to your decision to put d dad's name or not. For my case, I'm also 5 going to 6 mths pregnant and is single. I'm not putting d baby's father's name in it, so the baby is just going to follow my surname. =)
Hi.. I really think all of you are very brave and worthy of respect to follow through on your pregnancies alone.
Can I find out....What was the deciding factor for you to make up your minds to keep your children? For most people out there.. they would probably have been faced with the decision whether to terminate their pregnancies or not. Are you able to share any negative experiences you had and how you'd overcome them? Just feel that your experiences will really help a lot of single mums or mums-to-be who are going through difficult periods. Thanks very much....
faithtlb: thks yours advice
Ting: Dont stress yourself just be what your are and the most important is take care of your child 1st.
me no stress .
i just want pin all to myself.
well, DT86, i will suggest you put the baby under your own surname. its for the best.
for me, i regret i put my ex name on it. zzzzz.
Faith,one is enuf alrdy. my one n only pin. gimme headache, so naughty!!hahahaha.
Kudos to you .. I guess you're pretty strong cos I have never heard marry Muslim and dont convert one . but then sometimes convert in name only can? Like dont really care just change name .. dont go for class?
errrm, if didnt really marry them than no need... heard from some of my muslim friends say...just ignore it lol so mah fan....
Erm... how about not putting the father's name but using his surname? is that possible?
pardon me for frank , if you dont wanna put e fathers name rite then what for you wanna use his surname for ?? it is possible but cost more n he must be willing to let e baby under his surname... but in e first place have to put under your surname first... state single mother
then go to lawyer n ask lawyer to change e surname to e blood father loh like that dont need to have father's name but able to with fathers surname loh.. its just have to spend more money , plus e baby now is adopted by father loh cos oni adopted then can go with e baby surname mah...
n that also means, in future if e father wanna snatch e baby back he can do anytime cos birth cert have his surname mah, if dont wanna have tis case of snatching kids back then better dont put father surname at all.. it wont do any good, in case in future e guy cannot give birth anymore n start to tink of taking back e baby... =)
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Triple Precious Angels
My girlfriend is a Christian.
She married her boyfriend (now husband) who is a Muslim.
They remained with their own religion.
Cos Muslim allow the partner to remain with their own religion, as long as the religion is one of the 4 which Muslim recognised: Christian, Bhuddist, and not sure what else.
This is what she told me.
i will be a single mother soon, dear husband and i our filing for divorce after he had committed adultery again and again.
i am feeling very depressed and would like to know more single mother here, who is free to meet up with me. I feel so lonely, sad and depressed. have not share any of my personal stuff with any of my close friends yet, as they are all happily married.
firstname.lastname@example.org or anyone who needs to talk
And to all you guys who are dealing all these alone......now you know you're not alone and you sure do deserve alot of prasies and KUDOS.....