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was thinking....what will it be if...

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    was thinking....what will it be if...

    hi all single mummies...those who have a shared custody...

    what if one day you found your Mr right and you wanted to start a new family...
    have kids, have own house..

    then what will happen in everything..the kids in your previous marriage...and your ex...

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    what do you think?

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Most of divorced cases with kids, the custody is shared.

    If you wanted to start a new family, your kids from your previous marriage can remain the same, their father can still visit them, they still get maintainence from their father (until they are 21). OR. you and your future husband can opt for adoption.

    It always depends on what you want, how you want it to go and find a suitable solution to it.

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Hi, Was wondering if you r divorce and your future partner wants your kid to change their surname to theirs? Is this possible?

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Quote Originally Posted by faithster View Post
    Hi, Was wondering if you r divorce and your future partner wants your kid to change their surname to theirs? Is this possible?
    Can. Go for adoption. But long and expensive process. Plus approval required from biological father (if father's particulars is included in BC).

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    then the kids frm e pre marriage will address uncle to my current dear husband n if got kids nxt time both kids will address differently...
    Is there a way to make things less akward?? *wonder*

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    How old is your kids now? Maybe if they're young, start asking them to call your current husband "daddy".

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Quote Originally Posted by mag_huiling View Post
    How old is your kids now? Maybe if they're young, start asking them to call your current husband "daddy".
    they are still seeing their dad weekly.. call both daddy?? hee...
    dear son is 5 think can rem what do you tink mag_huiling

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Erm.... Well, Then in that case no choice. Can only have one daddy, unless you dont find it weird. But what if your dear son is saying about "daddy", how do you know which daddy he is refering to? Hahaha....

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    since your son is still seeing his father on a weekly basis,then just let him call your future husband uncle or papa? it all depends on your comfort level.

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Quote Originally Posted by mag_huiling View Post
    Erm.... Well, Then in that case no choice. Can only have one daddy, unless you dont find it weird. But what if your dear son is saying about "daddy", how do you know which daddy he is refering to? Hahaha....
    Lol yea so if shared Custody a lil headache... Present dear son will call uncle but in future if gt kids then will call daddy both call diff hais

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Quote Originally Posted by Ting View Post
    since your son is still seeing his father on a weekly basis,then just let him call your future husband uncle or papa? it all depends on your comfort level.
    have to b at dear son comfort zone..

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    Re: was thinking....what will it be if...

    Quote Originally Posted by zaries View Post
    have to b at dear son comfort zone..
    as he is still young, he might not understand this type of feeling yet, as in whether he is comfy or not. so it is up to you to guide him into it. if he doesnt like to call your future husb papa, then let him call him uncle.

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