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Hi Single mum, like to find out how you manage to work and take care of your dear son or dear daughter if you need to work?
Who help you to take care?
my mum is taking care of dear daughter for me..
im plannig to put her in a good CC after she turns 18months ..
was a stay at home mum looking after pin til she is 18 mths.
now im a full time working mum n pin's in CC.
hmmm, last time i work part time .
my family helped out when i go work.
i earn only like 600-700 per month.
for me, im lucky cos my aunt now sponsoring my girl's milk powder.
other stuffs, my mum n dad help abit here n there .
i mostly at home with my girl, so never spend much . only weekends go out with my friends sumtimes.
send too CC, sure can adapt after some time .
kids can adapt quite well, just that some take abit longer.
pin settled down after about 2 weeks like that.
she enjoys sch n have fun there, so she wont fuss.
n sch is good cos she learn new things n they also feed her 4 meals per day !
breasfast, lunch, tea n dinner.
so that settles her meals .
Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
poor liang jia, sayang..why your parents want to take rent from you? i mean if this rent is something like to cover up the household expenses, still ok ... than you dont need to top up extra. cos can't possible stay and eat for free esp if they are not working.
aiyoyo...sayang sayang...hmm...why not try talking to your family??hmm...i'm sure they will still help you when you are in need ....where gt parent wnt care about their child rite???maybe try talk thing out bah...for me i also talk thing out wid parent and both parent very supportive to me...if not i guess i won't keep baby too...
But i think must give some allowance also loh. anyway, it's ok . still managable thanks~
you all parents help you to look after the child for you?
Recently started to spank him real hard, feeling guilty everytime i do this, but he keep touching the power point, cannot just let him be.
So i thought hiring a maid to help so that i won't be too harsh to him...
its like that .
playgrp ... you can try explore arnd ya neighbourhood .
hi ting Pin's child care also provide dinner?Which child care is that?
she is in Little sch house.
provides 4 meals a day.
breakfast, lunch, tea n dinner.
also they never restrict the portions she take, n pin is a big eater, for lunch she normally takes in 2 portion, n tea time sometimes also 2 portions.
other CCs dont provide dinner?
Ting, most CCs operate till 7pm, so no dinner provided. Only CCs that open till 9pm provide dinner.
My boy's CC will give them light snacks at 6plus because the kids would start to get hungry by then.
ouh.. pin's CC open til 8 pm n they have dinner arnd 5 plus.
wow!!! i did not know cc opens till so late nowdays... thought it is only till 7pm latest..., else got fine...
i think diff CCs diff timing, but most shld be 7 pm.
so he already started on solids?
maybe you can try different variety?
what kinda food you give him now?
in CC, they provide diff kind of food everyday, prob will entice him to eat.
i just saw pin meal records ytd n realise almost everyday for every meal she will eat 2 portions. esp lunch n tea time.
haha, she helping mummy to maximise the cost of her CC. LOL!