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My 2nd dear son now going 4months. Thinking of having 3rd baby in Rabbit Year but abit scare of the pain hahaha. Also looking after myself very stressful coz no1 help me. Actually the 1st ex husband mum better than the current husband mum now, that time when i confinement i reli never touch water but this time confinement i wash clothes ,bath my dear son myself so pityful so tired.
So long our current hubby love & dote us the most can , dont't bother in law matter. Just like my current in law never care & concern when i'm pregnant only when i give birth she show her care & concern to my child and not showing it to me !
Now my mindset is just want to have a simple, normal and privacy life only me, my hubby and our kids will do.. Pray hard my this simple wish will come true..
Yes , your situation seem same like me . My mother in law show care to my baby instead to me. I never really talk to his family. I always stay inside the room.Hope i can get my own house soon. So you staying by your own or with mother in law?
Hmm.. Thought once not staying with them will be more better but still seems not much difference as my in law still will call or msg my hubby all this, only difference is we no need to face them EVERYDAY. Maybe is we still staying not every far from my in law place , they staying in Yishun and we staying in woodlands..
Hope by 2011 i can move in to my new house maybe move further from them than can see the result of them not disturbing our privacy ..
I really want to be strong but dont know y i just cant do it. And sometimes i really do silly things.... anyway i hve to see counselling becoz of him. And i am really scare as my edd is due on 14feb. Went for check up doc say my baby is small keep asking me to eat more. I really feel so lost... Should i take epidural or should i not? what will happen to me inside the labour rm? Who will take pix of my baby when he is born?
Dont be worry trendy, you must be strong. you can ask the nurses to help you take pix of your baby. Nothing will happen to you. When you r inside your mind will go blank trust me Lastime my 1st dear daughter also very small coz i eat less. But very good due date on Valentine day hehe
you can take picture after delivery its fine, when your family and friends are there to visit you they can help you snap also. Its perfectly fine. dont worry. I did that las time also.
you can opt for epidural for the labour process becoz you wonx be stressed by the pain, especially now that you are so worried and uptight, it might be a better option for you. However if you think that you are willing to try it on without epidural, at the end of the day you will feel good about yourself that you had managed to conquer birth on your own. Think about it only on the day of delivery, not now. Because if you keep dwelling on the options chances are it will make you more lost. So try try try to keep your mind off these things at the moment.
nurses will only monitor baby's heartbeat and your contractions via 2 instruments tied on your tummy. It feels uncomfortable because there is not much space to move around. If your waterbag burst before contractions you will need to be on a drip. And the nurses and doctors will check for any dilations at regular interval. Thats about all. Most of the time is just waiting and waiting. I am not sure if you r able to get a laptop to surf the net while waiting. Or watch movies? Any portable ipod shuffle that you can bring in? Coz it will be a long wait. Or you can read a book or something? Some mummies in here managed to chat in msn or go online while waiting....
about the baby small and eating more....rubbish ....just eat as per normal as long as there is enuff nutrition to grow.
if you need someone to talk to during your labour process you can call me...ekekekekek....will pm you my mobile if you want....hahahahaha......chit chat.
Hi there! It's sad to hear that your hubby hits you when you are preggy. Anyway, you will be too tired to think of who is beside you. Just relax and think of baby. You might be too nervous and excited to bother much either. Stay happy is most important for you now.
can i ask nurses to help me film the whole process then =p
isit okie for ppl to film? in the past it seems so common and in the trend. but nowadaes dont tink so?