Im a divorcee with 3 kids.
Here my opinion and personally exp.
When I had my daughter I was not married.
My parent insist me to get married although they never really understand and like my ex husband. They think that being a single mum unmarry is shameful thing.
I was planning to be a single mum cos I really dont want to get rid of my baby.
But I listen to my parent.
I get married.
For 6 yrs, he cheated on me for countless times.
I gave him far too many chances and I tink its time to let go.
I often think to myself,
What if I never listen to my parent, then wont my life be better than now?
I wouldnt have 3 kids with him and I sure I will be more happier as a single mum with my dear daughter.
So never be ashame to be a single mum.
SO what if there are alot of single mums out there?
Being single are not just our fault.
So being single with kids are a wrong signal to kids, then what about married and then divorce? Not wrong?