agree with liang jia.
its not your friend is brainless, its just she KNOWS she cant handle it.
she made a mistake and in a way, she is making up for her mistake too.
not everyone has the ability and courage to bring up a kid themselves, and what if her parents are not supportive?
you tell her to just keep the baby, are you gg to help her raise the kid? no right?
like you mention in your previous posts, its her own life, she chose this road, she never bother anybody, so why you wanna scold her cos of that?
be it keeping the child or gg thru abortion, it takes great courage and its a big decision.
let her take it as a lesson learnt and not repeat the same mistake once again.
same as liang jia, im not encouraging abortion, but bcos im gg thru this single mum thingy, i KNOW exactly how it feels like gg thru the whole pregnancy and bringing up of the child w/o the help n support of the child's father.
even that time i was stil with my ex, but its as if he wasnt there at all.
what's worse for your friend is, she doesnt even know WHO the father is, how does she feel then? if her parents n friends find out, wont it be more depressing for her if ppl talk behind her?
we all know how nasty some ppl can go, we can say, ignore other ppl, dont bother about what they say, but deep in our hearts, we know we dont feel good about it, we know we r affected by it, if we r not, then why do we go n "scold" ppl when they talk about us n our child?