This is a discussion on If someone looks at your cute dear daughter/dear son, would you go... within the Local & Foreign Issues forum, part of the Community Lounge category; whenever ppl comment that my son is cute..i wld smile at them n thank them for e compliment...but i wldn't ...
whenever ppl comment that my son is cute..i wld smile at them n thank them for e compliment...but i wldn't go to e extend of allowing them to touch my son's face let alone kiss him...touch his hands still ok coz i'll wipe them after e ppl have left...
Saw a nursery kid coming close to see my baby and seems like want to touch. I hurry push off. Scare baby got touched. I very bad one.
how about letting ppl take pics of your kiddos?
i used to let strangers take when she was younger.
but ytd this girl wanna take n i rejected her. she was about to snap then i told her nicely, sorry, no photography pls.
cos of those child porn thingy n all, tts why quite paranoid.
photoshop now can do alot for images.
Yeah agree with Ting .
But i always smile at people with babies.Won't go near though.
If the person is someone i know then i will take pics.
or you give them COLD stares ! then they will be "cooled".
may not be the person who took. but they put online.. anyone can just copy n save.
for safety purpose. i wouldnt want to see pin in such pics one day when im surfing the net lohh.
last time i also dont mind, til i read about those child porn then strike my mind.
yeah many ppl r very sick.. dad raping own daughters, men watching child porn.
Wonder any of you watch the new last week. There was this australian man raping her OWN daughter for 30 YEARS since she was only 11 yrs old and was given birth to 4 four kids! i was like! And all the kids was either deformed or like not normal. Poor kids! and was told that the gal have not't been staying in the basement shelther for 30 yrs!
I really feel so heartache for the gal n the kids.....and the stupid mother dont even know for 30 yrs that her daughter was hidden there and thought that her daughter was dead.
How come got such a sick man in this world?! feeling like kiling him!
yes there r child porn. like those young kids being rape or having sexual intercourse with older men?
mayeb a 11 or 12 year old force to have sex with a adult man n its being filmed down.
its happening overseas.
yeah like liangjia said, there was a news about the man raping his daughter.
some men do it..
i'll be very happy if strangers think that dear son is cute.. haha...whenever we bring him out some strangers will look at him and smile, i'll just smile back.. sometimes they will ask me how old he is, girl or boy, he looks like a girl etc etc...
i dont mind they commenting dear son looks lik a girl, is very big for his age etc.. cos afterall they are stating the facts...
that time got an auntie hold dear son's hand and played with him, so far i'm okay with it... but definitely no photos taking!!! haha!
Sorry, but I find it annoying - especially when they are obvious or say it on the top of their voice.
I dont't mind the smiles, the gushy looks from afar but when you purposely stop in your tracks and double back just to look at my baby, purposely position yourself in such a way that you want to see how my baby looks, follow me around, and/or start gushing/squeeling/screaming on the top of your voice about how cute or angmoh like my baby is, I get very annoyed. I feel as if my kid and I are on display like puppies in a pet shop. And to a degree, it's rude.
My mum thinks I'm silly for people being complimentary BUT there is complimentary and there is just plain rude, and so far, I've gotten "plain rude" more than "complimentary". dont know about you guys, but acting like this can get you into trouble in some parts of the world.
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yeah i heard from my bf that in australia, you canot say baby is cute/adorable, cos it is only use on animals.
can only use words like lovely.
and not all ang mohs like ppl to "talk" to their child n all.
so sometimes i will just smile smile only n walk off.