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I was so angry and upset when reading this news online about women in Vietnam are aborting healthy pregnancies just because they are having girl. What's wrong having a girl??
We are trying hard to have another baby and we want a girl and there they are aborting healthy pregnancies. I simply do not understand. I feel so depressed for all the fetus lives and also for all the ladies trying to conceive, it is so unfair.
Some countries are just too conservative and therefore many lives are sacrified and they really have no right to do that......
Heard in India, population ration is 10 men to 1 women, that probably explains the rampant raping
Girls also human what, why should they do that. It's a bless by god 2 give you the baby no matter is boy/girl.
what is so good to have boy instead of ger & is also their baby what...
y they 1 2 do that... reali dont understand them... sigh...........
I really felt the heartache for these innocent fetus and I really cannot comprehend how these women can take it. I remember a friend has to terminate her abnormal pregnancy to avoid causing danger to her life as it was the sac did not attached to the womb. And it has pained her alot and even today, she has another 2 healthy children, she remember about the one that she aborted and at times still cried about it.
And for me, it was hard as I was trying for #2, and the news really shocked me, to be like many of you, children are the blessings from God and each one is so precious.
china also rite? cos dey oni can have 1 kid derefore all wanted for boy.. argh!! i want girl so poor things for dem sigh..
Sighs. Cant believe in sucha century, ppl still have the thinking that baby boys are better than girls.
I've got nth to say anymore.
I also wanted a gal... they really have no brains to think.. if there is demand sure need supply. only got male... then next time no female ? without female, how to give birth. really brainless
In this world always unfair one, never been fair before. I also sometime wander why this type of ppl bear to do this . Guy or gal also their blood. They wun feel sad fer abort baby mehz. But no need to get angry or upset lahz, this world is cruel. Fer me i love to have gal. Gal can be easy teach may not as notti as boy
Last edited by x|ao^yUn; 12-11-2007 at 02:58 PM.
OMG they really heartless , others try vry hard 4 a baby still even cant get pregnant n they still do is...
Eh, really ? My hubby is Vietnamese and we go to Vietnam here and there. I dont really see the sexual favoritism... Much like in SG what. They want a boy but then as long as have 1 boy enough(kinda like to continue family lines like what our ILs will tell us in sg) no need abort girls. Maybe those news a bit exaggerated .
I admit I love Baby boys as from young I always ask Mummy why I dont't have korkor. And when I found out mine was a babygirl, I had a little disppointment. But I still love her as much. I mean, I wont abort it no matter what! It's my baby afterall. Some more the kicks and all built a bond .. how could these ppl terminate so easily?!! Poor foetus..!
In China, I heard of the same thing too. Becos they are only allowed to have one child, they abort upon knowing it's a girl and try for another babyboy. I think the harsh conditions forced them to do that. *shrugs*
going through abortion is tramatising enough for most women and is detrimental to their health in the long run. as we are not in their shoes and not living in their society, we will never know how these mummies feel when they have to choose between aborting their unborn foetus and the social pressure that they have to face each and every day.
I read in an article before that in this world, there is a baby being aborted every minunte, so there r average about 1440 babies being aborted each day. This is life, just got to face it .. Some ppl even complain that y they r born to this world, suffering. So is depend how you look at life.
to me,i too think that coming into this world is suffering too,just have to bear with it and hope for the best,do charity as many as i can ,phyiscally and mentally(like now that we show concern and heartache for those unwanted bbs)
third world countries that are known to practise infanticide should
1. outlaw pre-natal gender screenings
2. register all pregnancies
humans are ridiculous. i hate male-worshipping cultures.
Some abandoned the baby gal after birth...