This is a discussion on 2 weeks wait within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by misstheblue doggy chances higher? why? ok..i will try this month... They claim it swim faster...hahah...try ...me trying ...
good to all !!
His friend whenever see me will ask still not pregnant ar? this kind of stupid question... but the problem is not on me... i always want baby... but my husband just refuse to try... he said our body never keep up is not good to hav baby at this time... but he never do anything to improve his body... still smock n still drink... there r few times i said lets try for a baby, he will tell me oh yesterday i just drink.. not good... this time dont try... tomorrow then try... he can anytime shoot but i can anytime get fertile meh? once the golden period over then hav to wait 1 month... he think i got many month to wait?... we married about a year ... sien.... i dont know..i got a strong intention to leave him.. i felt he never listen n never understand how i feel...
maybe your dear husband r not ready to have a family.. Jz enjoy your marriage life n it'll come someday without noticing it.. Me too married for almost a yr now but still no news but me n dear husband r tryin our best to seek specialist.. We r now enjoying our quality time together before hearing news frm the gynae tis june rgds to our fertility results..
Almost the end of my 2 wks …feel nothing n 1 small pimple pop up… guess no chance ….eventhough chances r low because we only try once this month but I still hope I can strike. This month guess is a dissapoited month for me
same here misstheblue. actually some of the couples here are really more "hardworking". How can we increase our "interest"? huh....
i tink we shud enjoy the process n dont stress your dear husband cz wen he gets tense up it will affect he's sperm quality.. (i tink so) dont evn tell him that you wanna try for a kid.. jz continue the excitement of makin love not makin baby n it'll come.. i tried tis method but still gt no news cz found out frm the JE traditional chinese medicine that me n hubby gt prob.. My prob r more than my hubby n now we're seekin 2nd opinion frm the gynae..
i know cannot stress up... but i just cann't feel he want a baby also ....
at least some of you your dear husband are there with you to try for baby..at least you guys have the same thinking n willing to work hard to it... mine just simple boh cap...
God grant me a baby last yr (May) but took her away in Sep.
2mths ago my mum started to ask whether im consuming contraceptive pills or else it will be easier to strike if usually after the termination.
twinklestar, if you trying to concieve for this period of time without any news, maybe you should seek professional help. really got to let nature take its course. maybe when we forget about having a baby, we become more relaxed and behave more naturally which other mummies advise hence got to keep a positive attitude and daily lifestyle.
Let's support each other and stay positive & cheerful tog!
me too, hw relax we r but still deep in us we r craving for a bundle of joy. everytime my cycle ends my pity dear husband always hope for a bulls eye.. I tink he put on hopes more than i do. Wen he hears that AF here he try to be strong to take the fact but i know lookin at he's face, he got tis dissapointment look.. Poor him.. And he try to console me too that we have a long way to go..
yes.. its good to seek professional help early to avoid unnecessary complication.. that is what im doin now=)
Last edited by justforgags; 08-05-2009 at 02:52 PM.
I'm just a passer-by and somehow got to this post.
Please dont't get too disappointed and upset. I can fully understand your feeling as I too had a mid trimester termination 2 years ago. Baby stopped growing after 4mths pregnancy and I had to deliver her to terminate it. Was very depressed and upset, I kept thinking if I did any wrong to cause her death and cried for months. Actually even now whenever I thought of her, my tears would still flow down. It's too difficult to forget especially when her birthday is on the xmas eve.
I took a year and 2 mths to get pregnant again. During that period, I been asking myself if I will be given another chance to get pregnant again especially we tried every month but was disappointed month after month. Though I will be delivering my baby next month, the phobia of losing it in my tummy again is still very strong and everyday I prayed for his safety.
I believe your baby will come to you again when the time is right, take care!
dont mind if i asked did you take a look at her when you deliver her? For me i
dint have the courage! Im already very depressed losing her n im afraid she kept flashing across my mind if i see her.
But my hubby did! She still moving when i delivered her. My waterbag burst while im in the toliet. I held her in btw my legs(i was wearing sarong) just in time or else she falled into the tolietbowl.
The nurses praised me for my courage.. they even say that my gal look healthy n that was the first time they got to see such a big baby deliver due to termination. Worst of all that truly broken my heart was that the nurse put her away fm us in box. (the small size apple strudel box with holder)
They were be conducting a mass cremation. So sad!!
i almost forget to congrat you being a mum again! I hoped that im able to share my joy with you soon. Take care too
I didn't manage to see where the nurse put her to but saw her being wrapped up. She did asked me if I wanted to bring her home but I rejected, thinking I would cry my heart out if I were to do that.
Thank you and I believe you will be sharing your joy with us soon.
I terminated my preg in jan as baby was abnormal, they washed it out of me in about 5 mins time, when I woke up, I req to see my baby, the nurse at first rejected, after I insisted, they bring him to me, its only about 13 weeks, it was sucked out, all in a bloody bag, that was the first and the last time I held it.
At first I wanted to bring it home, but not sure what to do with it, so I let the hospital handle.
I went to Ji Shi Lin temple to set up a prayer for him for 49 days, we will continue to pray him for those "big days" coming. I went to Kandang Kerbau Hospital to see JT last month, he told me if there is no family history, then it should be a once of event.
I am trying again for my next one this week. I am scare too, but I think the past is just an unfortunate and one of a kind thing, so dont think too much of it, I m sure our next one, next next one, and next next next one will sure be ok.
I heard my cousin also loss his son at 8 months becos the placenta drop inside his wife's stomach.
Best of luck to everyone who is preg and who wants to be preg.
I felt very sad while reading all your posts about the unhappiness that you all had gone through. Really very courageous! Although it is easy to say, but do think positively and move on. Hope that those who are trying to concieve will be able to celebrate mother's day with our children.
i'm feeling dizzy these few days...the feeling is like reading book when sitting on the bus and the bus jerk.... dont think i pregnant cos other than this dizyness.. nothng i felt...
i wonder could it due to my low blood pressure? my blood pressure is 93/58 which doctor said normal as long as i not faint...
Hi ladies who are trying to concieve,
i'm new in this thread & this forum
have been trying to concieve for 5 months... tested twice already, but all negative.. money wasted .. and very sad some more..
now waiting for my period (supposedly come around this week)
since i'm kiasu, yesterday i took a test, but it's negative
but still hoping that it's just false alarm !!
to all the ladies who has gone through painful journey..
may God grant us patience to wait for the right time to have baby..
and let's hope that the time is near!!!!!!