This is a discussion on 2 weeks wait within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; I have a bd news... Will tell the story tmrw... Im freakin SAD.. My twitchin eye is sooo true......
I have a bd news... Will tell the story tmrw... Im freakin SAD.. My twitchin eye is sooo true...
Bloody news for me already....sianz..
ZERO sperm count!!!!!!!!! My dear husband broke dwn infront of our gynae n i broke dwn as well n she suggested IVF if really really no other way out n we dont want that cz i know its jz a waste of time n the chances r low..
I'm glad that you guys have cooperative dear husband to work with you during the ovulation period trying to concieve. My dear husband keeps saying want to have a child but when I tell him it's the week for trying to concieve he is like "bo chup" only when I say today is day 16 already if dont't want to have a child then never mind. My Gynae told me that from day 14 should work hard through day 22 but day 16 is most likely the day where ovulation happen. So if only work hard 1 day of the week how to get preggy. Then if that month I see red, he will say my "tummy" "bu zhen qi". Then he thinks it's my health that is affecting it but I'm like thinking it takes 2 hands to clap if my egg is out but no sperm how to get preggy when you are so lazy to work hard. By the way, he prefer DIY . So sian and sad to have such dear husband. only know how to scold me and show me black face when he suddenly get moody and I did not do anything wrong...Wonder when will I get preggy.....Sigh...
Dont worry so much okay? Give your hubby tonics to eat...eg the GNC Mega Men vitamins, brazil nuts, chicken essence, etc and see if it improves. Ask him alternate days rotate between all these tonics bah..otherwise 'too heaty' also no good.
My hubby did the sperm analysis also...and was told super low morphology (meaning good sperms very low). But on the day we did IUI, his morphology increased by 3%!
So dont give up hope okay?
justforgags, it could be your husband is stressed thus not producing soldiers. but dont worry, this is something you can work on
usually IVF fails bcos the female's womb cant hold the babies. but since you r ok, then the chances should be higher, dont worry too much if you wanna give this route a try, no harm also.
i suggest the following to help in the meantime:
1. dont put any pressure on him. if you know you r ovulating soon, just seduce him, dont tell him anything else.
2. give him some multi vits for men. esp those high in zinc (good for sperm production).
3. make him wear boxers. and no more tight pants for him.
4. play with his 'balls' everyday to stimulate it. increased blood circulation there will help
I've friends who manage to concieve naturally even though their husband's sperm count registered a zero during tests.
Empty vessels make the most noise
justforgags, sayang sayang.
hope your hubby is taking well.. preharps after he have sort of 'settle' down, then go for the alternatives? its a very hard news to hit upon on.. hope you and your hubby remain strong and positive to tide this current over ...
for me, i am going to get depressed soon....
your hubby may feel 'threatened' when you told him its the week? maybe he dont like doing at the moment as he feel its like for the sake of doing it? y not dont tell him, then just do it? you used that approach already?
when i conceived the 1st time, i didnt even tell my hubby that i could be ovulating but just do it!. and viola, striked it...that time we werent planning for baby.
Dear ladies, can I ask if it is possible to have zero sperm count even when the husband ejaculated??? If such is possible, then what is the liquid that was ejaculated???
justforgags, dont be upset. In fact, i understand a lot of men are suffering from such problem. My boss was sharing with me he had the same problem as your husband, zero sperm count and guess what? He is a father of two which he and his wife conceived naturally during a holiday on Star Cruise. My husband also has low morphology (meaning his sperms are 99% headless) and sometimes we are still joking about his "headless" sperms. You need to be strong and help your husband tide over. He must be feeling very inferior about it. But it's still not end of the world. Stress can play a BIG factor in such men's problems. Tell yourself, you got to brace up and help him and yourself to overcome all obstacles.
Give your hubby some tonics and dont stress him too much. Can buy GNC's vitamin Mega Men like Duhuh mentioned.
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wow 26JMC, i think i m the most useless one. I m the one who felt threatened when i know i m ovulating. hehehe... so it proves that stress is affecting every single one of us when it's BD time .
yooo oink oink, do take good care of yourself. now have to prepare the body for conceiving. hehehe
yah, after my first visit to him, i reckon he is too popular and the waiting time is too long . dont think he has the time to be more informative and detailed with us. i think i should change a gyane in east area bah.
i feel faintish and stomach cramps sometimes.... but it's still a wk to my menses. does anyone has this experience before? Die, i feel so weak at work for the past few days . Could it be i have low blood pressure?
Last edited by Daddy D; 05-06-2009 at 12:18 PM. Reason: duplicate
no .. just that maybe it freaks you out a little? like you dont know how to react to it? i am now waiting for my ovulation.. gynae told me will happen within these few days..but still no sign of it when i test with OPK... zzzz getting stressed ..i was worrying whether i will ovulate or not at this moment..wonder whether to call gynae and ask her to get some assurance or not.....
dont give up dearie......its only temporary......go see doc n ask them to help you.......you'r not the only one facing such problem........
nowadays, with the level of stress we'r facing, evy1 is almost having problems trying to concieve.......
b brave n walk through tis obstacle.......you can do it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
JIA YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he say i'm fat, not healthy, tats y cant get preggie......
when my ovulation date is near, i will tell him to get ready.....he give me those "bo chap" face.......at that moment, i feel like crying !!!! its as if i can make things work by myself !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but when its time to work, he will no matter how tired he is yaaaaa.....
but i just cant understand y he give me those feeling that its "nope of my business" type ......i guess at the end of the day, the stress its on us (woman) ......imagine you got feeling that your AF is coming, but you dont dare to tell dear husband.....then when it finally comes, you've to tell him the news.......during that 2ww, you keep thinking, when when when ar ? keep counting the days, tink of tis n that...i also feel that the stress is on us (woman) ....the guys just do their job n they never tink about it after that .........
on my side, he also knows i'm trying my best yaaaaa.....i completely stop drinking cold drinks (aiyo, my fav bubble tea) .....then smtimes, he see me pity pity, ask me to drink 1-2 mouth......
smtimes, i tink he just never express out his feelings yaaaaaa.....guys r like that .....
dont feel upset about it....i tink you'r stress too........
Thank you everybody for your positive encouragement... My dear husband took leave again tdy due to feelin emotional confusion... I showed him the positive msg that you guys gave n he smiled... Thr i told him that if thr is a will thr is a way... N tdy is his b'dae some more.. Really a disastrous b'dae news for him... Wen my cousin surprise him yest midnite he broke dwn like crazy... Wah wen i c him i sibei tahan n cried like i've never cried before!!!
Anyway he told me jz now wen he ejaculate the other day for the sperm analysis his lil bro like soft soft n he try his best to make it... He say mz do it at hm wen im by he's side.. LOL!!! anyway the gynae wants to double confirm n he'll be goin for the analysis again..