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At Kandang Kerbau Hospital.... I pay overall for my check up is $1500 Plus... Plus taking of the Vitamin & doing blood test... But Thomson Medical Center will surely be cheaper.. because they offer the package.... so if you choose to go Thomson Medical Center you wont have to pay as much as mine... as for the deposit for the ward & delivery... $1278... for B1..
That one got include that we requested for doc Ben... But as for CPF.. for check up you can claim... $450... as for the delivery & the ward claim i forget already... Hope this help
For breastfeeding.. i only BF for about 2 weeks... because i got baby blue.. so i will get very upset when i got not much milk.. so i stopped... if i plan for another baby... i will still try breastfeeding... haha.. now regretted that i never really BF my boy... For Bath.. when my boy is newborn my granny help me.. because i scare... haha... try to ask for help.... i'm sure people around you will give you a helping hand... as for poo poo... i clean myself.... everything is quite smooth.. but tired... because every 3 hourly gotta wake up for feed.. & my boy got colic the 2nd day... so did not sleep that night as he cry badly....
So have you get well from babyblue?
I also worry I have depression after labour cos I am more emotional type.When sad,it took me long time just to be back to normal,even hubby tried to make me happy.
So you daily online?Later will msg you my hp number.By the way,my name is NG KAI LING.I used my hubby email address and name cos I SELOM use computer.Since I joined Mummysg forum,then I type here and there a bit,so malu
It good to have another small brother or sister to Benson when you are ready for 2nd pregnancy.I also told myself to have at least 2 children so they can have companion,unlike me the only daughter.
Mentioning that in future will have people helping me taking care of baby,I dont think so.Cos after a simple marriage,I still stay at my mum's house,not in-law house,my hubby move in with me.In future it be harder life.
I've also stopped working to try to relax more. Had lower back problems, so my job always exacerbate the problem. Now am working from home, leisurely at my own pace. Hubby and i have been trying for a year, no luck yet. Been to gynae and had all tests and all came back normal. HSG done too recently. Normal too.. So now scratching our heads and figuring out what next..ha...
Its my 2dpo today according to my iphone ovulation calendar, on a 28days cycle. Back to the 2 weeks trying to concieve wait...sigh...quite stress at times.. Also had a chemical pregnancy 2 months ago...very sad...hope all's the best this time..
Didnt online on Tue as promised cos I nearly forgot I worked 10am to midnight.So from Tue to Thur(which is today),I am still working 10am to midnight. Plus my friend told me her in-law passed away,so I later early in the morning will visit the wake before going work,sigh so less sleep.Today tahan last day full-shift work then fri I work 3pm,at least can wake up late.
I read your Blog,knowing you aren't feeling so well,so must take care especially diet,dont eat too heaty food.I observe many people sick also.
So you plan to be a full-time mum to bring up your son well or you plan to work?
If I were to have a baby,I guess only my mum would help out a bit.My in-law probably won't.There is no one else,still left my hubby .
Sorry have not been replying to your well wishes. It has been an emotional roller coaster ride for me for the past week.
After tested positive on home kit, I went to test my HCG level at my gyne's (Dr Nair at Mount E specialist centre). Next day, clinic nurse called me to tell me my HCG level was very high for 5week plus pregnancy. read on the net that this may not be good news. worried the whole day. The next day, did a scan and saw the sac and yolk sac but no heartbeat yet. Dr gave me utrogestan that make me nausea and sick and to go back for proluton jab twice a week. Make an appt to see dr next week. Continued to worry sick and prayed very hard for God's blessing and interception.
Before making a decision to take a break from work, I was a workaholic, travelling and working late. My health took a toil (still going to work when sick)until i got married to in laws who are very health conscious. The extend we do to pursue healthy living is hard to imagine (if you would like to know some tips, you can drop me a private note).
I first miscarried at 5 months 2 years ago. Reason not known but i suspect it was my thyroid autoimmune problem (not detected then). Had another chemical pregnancy last Sep and detected my thyroid problem through a detailed check. I am considered a high risk for pregnancy.
To trying to concieve, i think it is good to go for some thorough checks for both husband and wife. Problems are unique to each individual and so got to work on the problem(s). My hubby has low sperm count. I had to force him to take proxeed supplementary drink dr prescibed and shellfish for zinc (thank god, his mother-in-law loves crab). For me, I had to weed out likely causes of thyroid problem and improve immunity. besides thyroid medication, I took prenatal vit from GNC daily, folic acid 5mg from Guardian at night, omega fish oil (make sure it is molecularly distilled), vit C (body cannot store vit C and this has to be taken daily), fruits in morn and night, less fried and oily food and more veg (i read some uncooked food veg like salad and yogurt is good), milk or calcium products and wholemeal bread, rice etc. Oh, I also take nuts (brazil nut for selenium), almond, pumpkin seeds, walnut, raisins (nuts can be toxic if consumed too much). Exercise is a must and for a lazy person like me, i like Yoga and swimming.
During ovulation, got to *try* very hard every other day And lots of positive thinking!
It was in July that I started seeing Dr Tan Siew Buoy from Thong Chai. I find her herbs very effective in stimulating ovulation.
I was told by a spiritual friend that all babies are a miracle from God and when you trying to concieve, you need to ask God for blessing. How true.
I have not had IVF or IUI but my brother and sister in law tried for 4-5 times before finally given birth to a baby boy this Apr. I have also heard stories of friends who went thr miscarriages bef conceiving. I guess having a baby in our modern stressful society has become challenging.
Thank you all for your well wishes. I am keeping my fingers crossed and praying really hard. Your prayers are much appreciated!
Do update us after your visit to Doctor.Relax..over-thinking only makes unnecessary stress.
Would like to ask you when you are expecting your first baby,would you get over-worried when you were uncomfortable,in pain,or when you were sick?Then when you were sick,eg fever,diarrhoea or cough,where would you go for doctor,normal clinic or your gynae?Did your Gynae charge separately?Would you visit the doctor over slightly matter?
Actually when i was 1 week before i deliver... i got very high fever & flu plus cough... by then i went normal doc.. but the medicine didnt help much... so i went to buy some medicine off the counter.. that is safe for preggy woman to take.. luckly before i deliver.. my fever is gone... only left cough... but i cough badly.... my gynae will charge separetely... but i think now in Thomson Medical Center if you get the package... see him when you r sick is included....
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