This is a discussion on Any ladies not working and trying to conceive? within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by angelwendy Haha... just like to help people.. hehe Yup my gynae is Benjamin Tham.. when i with ...
Well you are considered high-risk age group.
Of course you can go for pre-pregnancy checkup if you want a detailed info conditions of both your hubby and your health.
But JJDAD did mention a point which I do agree is that most of us are able to conceive unless due to health problem,blocked fallopian tube or over-stressed.
How about self asking how good your health basically?Did you have high blood pressure,high blood glucose,high cholestrol...?How is your daily diet and lifestyle?Should you take up exercise more or eat more healthy?
In this forum,there are many tips to share around !
How is your progress coming along? Are you also trying for a rabbit baby?
I am trying to build up my health as I am quite weak.ALWAYS tired easily,didnt have good sleep as I always dreamt,appetite small and always gastric..
Due to working in supermarket,I always home and sleep at 1am,2am which I know is not good.I read that at a certain timing at night,our bodies are doing the repairing at that particular timing so it is good to sleep early,perhaps before midnight the latest.
I always get gastic as my eating food portion was smtimes small,smtimes big depend on my appetite.So this is where I try to eat more and eat the same portion to balance it.
And I learn to drink milk mini type 250ml,Anlene concentrated.I realise it helps lessen my gastric pain frequency.
I took folic acid too,bought from GNC,800mcg.
Exercising like walking is good for health after some time as it does circulates blood.
Of course I do hope I can have a rabbit baby.
Dragon year is coming and I suppose many mummies-to-be want dragon babies!!!
Hi trying to concieve'ers..
i'm a newby in this site..
soo here goes..
Me 28.. Hubby 38.. Married 3 yrs.. trying to concieve for 3 yrs..
we have not gone for any check ups.. no BBT.. charting or whatsoeva..
1st try.. thought it would be easy.. and waLLLLaahhhh.. here we r.. stiLL trying..
i've started charting recentLy.. *Less then a month*
and see how.. i aLSO made an appt for pap smear.. which i've never done in my Life.. and wiLL aLSO ask to be refered to fertiLiTy check up.. but sadLy hubby just dont wanna go for it.. *bummer
since i was married.. i stop working.. just to start a famiLy.. now.. 3 yrs Later.. no famiLy.. hmm..
hey i heard of that too..btw, on your gastric matter, try to drink a cup of warm condensed milk drink whenever you feel the pain..it always works for me
hehhe yeah i would love a baby rabbit or dragon..cos rabbit nice and guai and dragon supposed to be very intelligent
I also didn't do any charting or temperature takings and also married for 3 years (Hey nice to meet another fellow 2007 exbride here hehe) I am also not working but occassionally called in as a relief teacher assistant for the local kindergaten here it's good to occupy my time a bit i think..
as for the pap smear, it's pretty fast one..although a bit discomfort cos stainless steel medical equipments will be used..personally i think i prefer a female doc
not really exactly the same reasons but my husband had cancer before and it affected his libido and his swimmers..actually for your case if there's a chance of conceiving, it might be a blessing since many of us want to have children but can't but if it's really affecting you much, try to talk to her and compromise on things..
Me down with cough recently...sigh...everywhere people are coughing...milk I dont dare to drink actually but I now learning to drink..condensed milk ar???yuck yuck to add with warm water and just drink.But this remedies I will try at my wit end.
Let hope either rabbit or dragon year we can conceive .
stress to think of trying to concieve.. weird how it does not work.. even though trying to take it easy..
am gonna strt bbt soon..
pap smear nxt week.. scared of the results.. somehow i think i have problem..
every month since 2004 14th to 19th day after mentral.. have this sharp pain..
went to hospital.. *via ambulance*
they said i have IBS..
but dont think soo also..
i think it is something else..
hope pap's will detect something *minor*
crossin my fingers
not really exactly the same reasons but my husband had cancer before and it affected his libido and his swimmers..actually for your case if there's a chance of conceiving, it might be a blessing since many of us want to have children but can't but if it's really affecting you much, try to talk to her and compromise on things..[/quotehope that your husband is ok now. hmm...didn't know cancer can affect libido and sperms. Conceiving is definitely a blessing but I already have two blessings and that's enuf. I sincerely wish those who wants to conceive all the best and hope that miracles will fall upon you guys. Good luck!
Go for a full check up first before trying for a babay. And also build up our body immune system so can conceive easily.
every future mummy who is trying jia you jia you.......I also planning to resign in Jan next year to conceive...........
lets wish all our dreams come true in year 2011
i totally know what you meant on stressing on TCCing and wierd on not happening despite the wait but hey try to take it easy as stressing will not help...this is what im also telling myself
have you been to the doc about it yet? since it's started way back in 2004? If really IBS, so they give you anything..like medication or advices on how to cure it?
do update us on your check Hope it's nothing serious *hugs*
hmm..tips? I try to eat nutritious homecooked food cos at home nothing to do so cook and bake and eat hahaha..and these days im trying to at least start exercising again on the rowing machine..and oh husband also have to do his part on eating right..well i tried to nag at my husband to eat but he just loves meat and potatoes! And he seldom eat veggies and hates fish..except BBQ stingray haha..not very healthy i know
but if your husband is very adventurous about food, then get him to eat a variety of food to build up swimmers quality cos baby making project is not only our roles..the guys have to play a part too
you? What are you doing to prepare yourself? Jia you !
the best part is.. i was not given medi.. they even said.. there is nothing they can do for the pain.. i did seek second advice.. same thing..
one mistake though.. i said before they checked.. i told thm i have ibs.. they do ultrasound.. found nothing..
i still find it amazingly wrong.. i know how these doc works. and they are only human who can make mistakes...
soo i need to go to a gynae.. but the only stopping me now is the cost..
haizz.. stress .. jialat..