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Hi..I'm scheduled for my d&c on 30/3 bt I tink my baby cannot wait and wanna cum out.. have been having slight bleeding.. This is my first child and I gt pregnant one month after our wedding.. My hubby n I work in the same place so when everyone at work gotta know I was preggy they went "whoa!! you all very fast have baby.." not including those who gt married about the same timing as us and yearning to get preggy...
At 5 weeks, I ready had spottings n was given medicine n jab.. there was heartbeat at 7 weeks.. Unfortunately, at 10 weeks, baby heartbeat stopped.. Hubby n I held back our tears when we heard the sad news..sigh! now I just dotno hw to go back to work n answer to all those nosey pokers who will definitely ask what happen..
Jmc... Yup, went to both Kandang Kerbau Hospital & singapore general hospital... Both confirmed about my m/c..
Yup.. 1st pregnancy..both my parents n my in-laws anticipating for their 1st grandchild.. Imagine their disappointment when they heard about the bad news..I'm recovering and following this thread gives me the strength to resume back my normal life..
hi werxbabe...i work with my husband too..and worst still, 3/4 of my colleagues are my relatives..(family business)... so i find it hard too to face them when i start work after d&c... I think you have to be strong.. If you dont feel like sharing the story yet, just tell them one sentence on what had happened and tell them that you r not ready to share the details with anyone yet. I guess they wld understand and give you some space.
Meanwhile, rest alot and be strong & happy... we women are strong creatures!!! hahaha.. we will never concede defeat!!!
god bless you werxbabe
Tomorrow will b my D&C. Gynae can't see baby heartbeat on Mon. Saw baby heartbeat last week when it's still about 6 weeks old but just one week baby left me. I have an abortion during my teens due to both me n my hubby were still young n financially unstable. Have been trying for one after so many years of gulits and managed to conceive in 2005 after married for 3 years but it ended to be an ectopic pregnancy. I have been crying n crying for days n could not get over this till recently. I finally put the past behind n live on as for the past 5 years of hoping n trying for baby we decided to live without kids. Just when we have planned for our future for the only both of us, I found I was pregnant. I was then in the 5th week of pregnancy. Due to my previous ectopic pregnancy history, I have been worrying for this baby. Went to gynae on the 5th week due to spotting. Was given hormone pills and then it's stopping. Went for follow up on the 6th week, saw baby heartbeat but then gynae said that she expected the rate to be faster. Have been bedrest n took medications promptly but still ended up baby no heartbeat on the following weeks.
Tinklish.. thanks for the comforting words..
Ladynana.. We had gone thru about the same thing and I hope what had happened makes us more stronger.. Life still has to go on.. Take care..
Hello how's everyone? It's sad to see people suffering from miscarraige. If technology can advance, i hope they come out with something that makes every pregnancy a success and able to carry the baby to term. Stay strong ladies!
I went to my gyane yesterday for a check up, all is well, She gave me some progeterone to take after ovulation. She said to take it when we start trying. Wanted to try this cycle but my hubby is sick again! Shi- always getting sick during my fertile period, lol or maybe god really dont want me to have a baby tiger.
Anyway just returned from Perth business trip. So tiring. So tomorrow going to univesal studio, take one day leave and go enjoy. hehehe
hi shiseru...welcome back from your Perth business trip!!!
Im still stuck at hm resting..hubby dont allow me to go back to work until the mc ends.. sian.. so just fattening up myself these days (eat, sleep, eat sleep).. hahaha..
have been a silent reader of this thread.. Lost my little one (no heartbeat @ wk 7) on the 23rd mar and did a wash out on the 24th.. I was and am very devasted! First pregnancy. =(
Well, got to pick myself up and trust in God that His will is that we will have a healthy baby in future but not now.
May i ask when is the earliest that we can try trying to concieve again? =)
hi jaster. Im sorry to hear about your loss. Be strong my dear.
The earliest to trying to concieve depends on individual. Some feel its ok to trying to concieve as fast as 1 cycle, provided you r feeling better and all. Some prefer 3 cycles as it takes some time for everything to get back to normal (menstrual cycle,ovulation,etc). But I have decided to take another approach this time round.
When I lost my first baby, i was sad and very eager to be pregnant again to take back what has been taken away from me....so i started trying to concieve after 2 cycles i think and got pregnant 6 cycles later.. but the pregnancy was shortlived. So now, i think i will recuperate and bu my body first before heading str to trying to concieve. At least know the problem, rectify it and then start. But this is just my opinion.
=) Jia you! did your gynae advise on what you can do in future to prevent it from happening or at least the cause of the mc?
my gynae gave me a straight "dont't know" and he also said they won't know whether our womb is strong enough to sustain another pregnancy or not.
Though the gynae can't guarantee whether the next pregnancy will be a healthy one or not, but at least they could help to support. Like my gynae said, early support is important, so she suggest I see her before i get pregnant, or she won't be able to help if i start looking for her after pregnant. I used to be with KK, now i switch to Dr Ann Tan. I went for a check up showing her my BBT chart, she gave me some progesterone to support early pregnancy.
Try charting your BBT, and show it to your gynae. Charting is a great way to understand your body system. Sometimes hormones insufficient or short luteah phase will cause early stage miscarraige.
It has been one and half months after my D&C. my first AF has returned and today i received a smiley face on my OPK. My hubby is feeling alright, but he is afriad to try again he thinks it is too early. My gynae said it is alright to try as long as my heart is ready.
Tinklish, take care and were yours a natural bleed or you went through a D&C?
=) I think i'm in good hands under my current gynae.. Heard about Dr Ann Tan.. are her services and consultations very expensive?
I had my d&c 5 days ago and I stil noticed some bleeding.. Is it normal.? After hw long will I totally stop bleeding.. ? I'm pretty worried thou.. thanks thanks..
is it spotting or a lot of bleeding? i had mine done on the 24th March and till now I'm still spotting. When I visited my gynae 2 days ago, he told me that it will stop perhaps in another week or so... dont't worry too much! =)
Hi jaster.. Mine is not a lot of bleeding but oh yup.. It's spotting perhaps.. Ok good to hear it will go off..
I have a bad experience with govt hospital and I will not go back there anymore..Just to share what had happened.. After they detected my baby heartbeat had stopped.. They asked me whther I wanted to let the foetus dropped natural.. Eventually I was scheduled for d&c in 2 weeks time. In between while waiting for d&c, I had spottings so I went back and was advised it's normal and just wait for d&c..a few days later, I had bleeding.. And again they told me it's normal..that very night, I was rushed to a&e cuz my tummy hurts badly and I bled a lot..in the end they ward me..
The worse part was whoever who didn't have an appointment and walk in at the O&G clinic, will have to wait for about 2hrs for their turn to see the doctor.. After this bad experience I had, I will rather pay a bit more for the private hospital..
i chance upon these recepi in a chinese forum.. so just share with your girls ...it saids it help to reduce the chance of miscarriage...
习惯性流产多数在怀孕后12周以内发生，在育龄妇女中，习惯性流产者并不少见，因此，安胎在孕早期就显得尤 为重要了。你知道保胎吃什么吗？除了遵循医嘱进行一定的病理性的治疗之外，通过相关的食疗方法也可以起到保 胎安胎的作用。
shiseru..i dunnoe why, but they always never give me an option. They will just say I will do a d&c for you...weird huh..
werxbabe, its ok to bleed/spot on and off..i had my d&c done on the 12th march and im still spotting (3 weeks )... as long as you r not experiencing heavy flow of red fresh blood (need to change 1 pad every hr) and painful cramps + fever...it shld be ok. But if you still have further doubts, you may give your gynae a call and ask him/her.
wa. you went perth . no wonder didnt hear from you.
you going to seek traditional chinese medicine or not? i will be . Gynae gave me clear to go ahead . but i will go seek traditional chinese medicine 1st..
my 3rd cycle was hay wire. my 4th cycle mense ( which is now) also hay wire. wonder whats wrong. hope i can find some answer in traditional chinese medicine. make me quite freak out and bothered by it actually
thank you JMC! Oh well! Today has been a very emotional day for me. I cried when I pass by Mt A this morning on my way to work and also cried when i pass by Thomson Medical Center on my way back to home from school..
I hate myself. I can't help but to think I am the cause of all these! I'm stubborn. I regret. I'm very angry with myself.
i know its inevitable to self blame. i did also when i was with 1st and then subsequent 2nd.. sometimes i do cry out of sudden when i became emotional. *sigh*
are you resting? if so, take this time to rest well n heal your soul. *sayang sayang* hope your family is giving you the utmost support that you ever need!
thank you for your encouragement! Sigh.. maybe time passes like so slowly that's why my mind went negative again. But I'm feeling much better now. Haa.. =)