This is a discussion on Anyone got pregnant soon after Miscarriage? within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by tinklish hi feathers!! i finally got mine today!! so happy..it was crampish and all..but i never ever ...
I'm still on the fence thinking if I should try this month. On one hand worried that it's too soon, another hand thought since I'm healthy and it's here can try and let nature decide. Still got few more days to think about it, hee.
Last edited by shiseru; 03-09-2009 at 10:54 PM.
26JMC, mine also... now 2 mths already, the next menses still have not come.. =(
and it -ve
wah...sian. 2 mths and -ve.. crescent, just be patient bah..nothin much you can do also..sigh...I wonder what will mine be..
shiseru, i totally agree with you! like kena rape! the nurse keep on asking me to relax..im too tense..all i said was, "im trying!" haha
tinklish, ya .. damn sian... but now i dont care already.... tonite i goin clubbing... hehehehe
just wait for my next menses to come then try again...now also hard to track O...
sometimes i feel that the more you r in control of it, the more it wldnt be normal.. probably too stress and all..so relax and let it do its own things
sigh...simply hate to hear such things.. cheer up k.. your day will come soon stay positive..
I was tracking my basal temperature and it was so haywire! haha..today is day 8 of my cycle..when shld i test for O?
Among so many methods of ovaluation prediction, i feel Cervical Mucus Analysis and Cervical Position being the most accurate. I havent started trying though, i will probably feel uncomfortable using my fingers to... T__T
Tinklish, my AF seemed to return yesterday evening, 4 weeks after the m/c, I thought it will come later, given the fact it was a late pregnancy termination.
Anyway, I try using the ovaluation calculator, based on my cycle is 26 days, i am most fertile from 16 to September 21. My body has recovered but i wonder if my mind and heart is ready...
crescent, i dont really know how to gauge using discharge. Yes i know if eggwhite means fertile and all..but i dont really know whether what i am seeing is eggwhite or not..
Anyway, lately (day 6-8) of my cycle, when i wipe i will get wet brownish discharge..but only discharge, didnt stain my pantyliner..i guess that is spotting? But im surprised my discharge is wet. Usually im dry during my AF.
shiseru, 4 weeks after m/c? woah, that is fast.. mine came in 7th-8th week? sigh..but anyway im glad that it came..
hahaha.. it's hard to gauge sometimes.
i'm thinking of seeing traditional chinese medicine or going back to my gynae to scan see anything wrong anot...
I dont fully understand about the Cervical Mucus or as in discharge. But if dont know how to see, then feel lohz, can? They said during non fertility days, the mucus is either light or sticky (about the same texture as sticky rice). During the few days leading up to ovulation, when you're most fertile, you'll have more discharge — clear and slippery with the consistency of raw egg white. It usually happens either the day before, or the day of, ovulation.
I'm still not ovulating even thou my gynae predict I would. She give me 10 days from last sunday to have ovulation else I'll have to see her to take medication to help release the egg. Which will prove that I have a problem, boo hoo. Scary thou, crossing fingers and hope it'll just come soon! Plus with this my period is going to be soooo late. Sigh...
i just booked a appointment with my gynae next sat....hope nuthing's wrong..
shiseru, i dunnoe whether m i ready or not..emotionally, i know if it happens again, i will definitely be devastated again..who wldnt be right? as for physically, i really do not know as well cos i feel ok outside but as for inside, no idea...but i do want to try for it. Hence, we are planning to let nature takes its course rather than wait 3 cycle...Didnt really consult gynae yet thou..dunnoe whether shld i or not..
actions?? hmmp...yesterday? haha.. first unprotected action..but i know wun strike yet cos i just ended my AF. Shiseru, how about you? after your AF, planning to try??
feathers & crescent, dont worry too much. I think stress is one big factor that all women are facing..stress with work, family, trying to concieve, etc etc etc...hence, without knowing, we might delay or disturb our normal body mechanisms...so, let us all relax ok....
Last edited by tinklish; 09-09-2009 at 07:16 PM.
Tinklish, I wanted to try but I am scare. I feel so paranoid becoz of the previous horrible incident. My gynae said can try after the first menses.
Yesterday it was a month after I delivered the fetus, I suddenly think of my baby and I cried a buckle of tears man
I guess i havent really get over it yet but i agree let nature takes it course too, and it's been so long since we had sex (almost 8 months lehz!) O_O
Feathers and Crescent, Ganbatte!
Shiseru, my heart weeps for you. I feel your pain. =(
Crescent, hope all goes well. I think its normal that the cycle gets abit unpredictable after m/c. Got to slowly let it adjust back, see what you gynae says. I'm sure you'll be alright.
shiseru..today will be exactly 2 mths after my m/c..I am still affected by the lost but somehow i do not cry that much as compared to the first 1 month... however, i wldnt really say that i got over it already..who can right? esp on every thursday of the week, it simply felt as thou it happened just yesterday..
shiseru, be strong alright..we are all here for you..
A question, your first menses after the m/c, was it heavy? Mine is quite heavy i find myself changing pads every 2-3 hours! I never had it this heavy before. Is it normal?
shiseru..i wldnt say that is is exceptionally heavy...mine is like my normal AF before pregnancy...first two days, relatively heavy..then 3-4th day will be lighter..than 5-6th day will be spotting.. prob cos my bleeding after m/c stops only after 2.5 weeks? im not too sure also..
personally, if i think its heavy, isnt it good such that it clears your dirty blood away? any other views ladies???