Dear memories, sorry to hear about your loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy last August too. Interestingly, I had no symptoms at all prior to my first check up and only discovered that mine was ectopic when I went for a scan on the seventh week of my pregnancy. It was only a few hours later after my ectopic pregnancy was discovered that I had intense pressure at my rectum and I had to go for an emergency op to remove my left tube.
Just want to encourage you to rest well and then try again when you r ready. I started trying after resting for two months and conceived this Jan. I am now into my 10 weeks pregnancy.