hmm maybe you can read up on zodiac books?
This is a discussion on FengShui - zodiac enemy relationship within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; hi, need advice! any comments on having harmonize relationship between babies who are born zodiac (chinese horoscope) enemy to daddy ...
hi, need advice!
any comments on having harmonize relationship between babies who are born zodiac (chinese horoscope) enemy to daddy or mommy?
hmm maybe you can read up on zodiac books?
thanks for yr reply. it's a good idea and i shall do so!
but i also want to hear real life experience from any ladies on the forum. however seems like not much response to this...hee...
i have a few examples of parent-child who are suppose to be zodiac good friends but actually not really that good friends hmmm..
example me and my dad (rooster-bull), we suppose to be very very click..... but i everytime quarrel/argue with my dad one.
my hus and his dad (snake-rooster), suppose to be good friends too, but he seldom like to talk to his dad.... sometimes when start to talk, will quarrel/argue too......
and one of my friend's hubby and her father in law --> (snake-bull), the hubby not click with his dad (my friend's father in law) too....
me and my maternal grandma (rooster-rabbit) --> supposed to be zodiac enemies.... but my maternal grandma loved me alot..... i also love her and appreciate everything she did for me....... too bad she passed away ....
hope this information helps....
I m quite believe in Horoscope in fact. Cz I can feel the impact if tht horoscope is really an enemy.
Heeee..thanks for reply to my this thread. in fact i started this thread after i discussed with you earlier on this matter.
so you mean that yr personal experience is that even those these people are supposed to be zodiac comparable but end up with a lot of tension and quarrel with the other party.
P.S I have a couple of friends your age (rooster) ;D
my grandparents (cow and sheep ) --> supposed to be zodiac enemies.... confirm in fact they bicker all their life..til these day. realy zodiac enemies but tied together...lol...perhaps all these things boil down to 8 zhi or yuan feng especialy that really determines the relationship?
my cousin and her husband (horse and rat)--> again zodiac enemies, and their marriage is filled with disagreements and bickerings too.
me and dad is (horse and rat) --> again another pair of zodiac enemies..confirm no chemistry. also can't see eye to eye.
me and a close friend (horse and sheep) --> zodiac good friend, and i can confirm this relationship is good! she is kind of my gui ren too. heee...
I also got bullied by a colleague who is my chinese horoscope enemy!!!
Hi Pet Pet,
thanks for sharing your experience. like you, i also can feel strongly the impact when the chinese horoscope is an enemy!!!
My husband and my mother in law supposed to be zodiac enemy (rooster - rabbit) but they are fine. My mother in law dote on him than his sister. Maybe its due to being "zhong nan qing nu"?
Me and my father (monkey - rabbit) - super conflict. Cannot even live together. But my husband is rabbit. We have quarrels and all, but so far its normal in a relationship.
Feng shui shifu says that my "gui ren" is sheep, but I cannot tahan my father in law who is sheep. Because he loves to gamble and he smoke in the house when we are all around. I super cannot tahan smokers. I am also not in line with his belief-system. Lets just say our believes are opposite poles of each other. North and south. Same as my father. I find that I always seemed to have issues with fathers or father in law. Maybe because of my inherent distaste of men who cannot take proper care of their family. I just dont like these kind of men.
I guess bad experiences and personaility counts. Because I am a slight feminist. Like my husband believe that married couples must have children else marry for what? Me, on the other hand, directly oppose to this belief. I feel that pregnancy is a choice that a woman make and we should have kids because we love children and want them to compliment our marriage.
So there you go, I think personality and the way we are raise makes a big diff.
I am suppose to be enemies with people who are born in the year of tiger. So far, yes, at work, got conflict with 2, but funny thing is, once we became ex-colleagues, we are fine again as friends! LOL. And my tigeress big boss definitely liked me in my ex company...to the extent that some of my ex colleagues were jealous of me. (Like what the....I can't prevent myself from being somebody's pet right...) But yah, anyway, I left that place because the other people who are supposingly my zodiac friends makes my life utterly difficult!!
sigh...I think reading up on pyschology helps me...makes us understand how to communicate with people efficiently, how to love our children correctly etc. I am sure that makes any turmoil calm
Last edited by dancingbunny; 11-07-2012 at 07:38 PM.
i think zodiac enemies may not necessary be enemies.... and zodiac friends may sometimes can't click too
me (rooster) suppose to click with my "dragon" friends..... but so far, i only click with One Dragon friend, the other 3 dragon people (one colleague, one boss, one dancemate) --> i dont't really click with them...
but in Sad33 case mentioned above, it really seems to be the case as in zodiac enemies cannot click with each other...
however, in dancingbunny case, it is the opposite.
So it is really hard to Say....
Maybe it also depend on Western Horoscope? as in Taurus, Gemini, Aquarius, libra, Scorpio all those? We may have to see both factors?
But even if we talk about Western horoscope...
i am a Taurus, I am suppose to click with Virgos and Capricorns, However none of my Virgo and Capricorn friends click with me !!!!! On the Contrary, I click with Geminis very well, yet in horoscope study, Taurus not suppose to click with Geminis one....
and yes, Sad33, to answer your question above.... ya .... even those Zodiac Friends can have tension and keep quarrelling ..... Maybe because they know each other too well ....
Last edited by faithmummy; 12-07-2012 at 12:01 AM.
Thanks for sharing your experience!
i like the part on you becoming yr ex-boss pet! lol...btw how do you handle being a pet? share your secret ...cos it is hard to have normal relationship with your other colleagues.
do you and yr ex-boss even talk a lot on non-company matters and even go out for meals?
in fact i have to same thinking with you on kids. i never feel that kids is essential to make my family complete. that is the reason why after getting married for more than 10yrs then i finally want kid. maybe also due to the fact no supporting in laws as they pissed me off initially when we married and i swear that if i kids, it is because i am doing for husband and myself. and not because of them.
ya ...my experience with dancingbunny is completely the opposite. quite funny so it is very difficult to comment on such things.
LOL faithmummy, I AM A VIRGO!!! I am a true blue virgo with characters of virgo such as high expectations to my own standard, pettiness cos maybe at times too high expectation? and also doing things blindly cos i feel it is right in this manner?
of course people dont't see eye to eye to what i feel or do, but it is my own expectation i have for myself!
Hey we two can click right. Taurus and Virog??? lol....we have been 'talking' almost for 1 month? lol....
you are Virgo !!
that means you are my horoscope good friend !!!
No wonder we seems so click and have same thinking...
I have many virgos and capricorns friends -- suppose to be my horoscope good friend.... but i never seem to click with them totally..... always have different thinking.... now i finally found one friend really click one which is you.... so glad.... but ironically, we found each other due to M/C ..... maybe it is fate..... but i am really sure we will have a healthy baby again... please dont't lose hope....
do you mind sharing who is you and your hubby zodiac enemy?
my hubby zodiac enemy is Tiger because he is snake (but he dont't dislike my mum )
my zodiac enemy is rabbit because i am rooster (but i also love my maternal grandma , she also dote on me very much)
Last edited by faithmummy; 15-07-2012 at 10:42 AM.
yes! i am also very grad we found each other on this forum! it's really nice getting to know you! however when both of us are caught in a weird situation ....
i'm a horse so my zodiac enemy is supposed to be rat.
my hubby is pig, so zodiac enemy is snake. that is why i scare to have snake baby.
anyway i will let nature take it course first. unlike the few of you who may want to try soon, i think i will delay another 9mths to 1 yr? my boss was nice enough to give let me go unpaid leave to settle some domestic issues that coped up before my mc. now back to work, i dont't want to this-convenience her so soon! haaa...not very fair to her and company too? but really dont't know too....
your hubby's zodiac enemy shld be a pig right? instead of tiger?
LOL...well, I dont really chat that much with my ex-boss, but she openly praise me infront of others during meetings. And that is when you can feel "thousand piercing eyes and needles" stabbing you from all directions.
Buay tahan, what to do? I cannot control what she wants to say right? Yeah, my ex colleagues will suan me , say things like, aiayh someone so important , your name is everywhere on those presentation slides of "Must have" in events...etc etc.
*roll eyes* *&%@)$&^()#$*&
Just ignore . act blur and try to behave and talk to them as normal as possible. But very hard to stay on . That is why I left after a while.
I am a scorpio, and strangely, my ex bosses and my supervisor and my mentor, all scorpios. Maybe western horoscope plays a part. And I know some other horoscope cannot get along with scorpios...because we sting?! hahaha
however, after you mention here, i go and check.... it is indeed Pig, not tiger....
that means all along i misunderstood..... hmmm....
if you are a horse, you can try for a horse baby hehehe .... horse & horse are both good friends too...
You can start trying to concieve in June 2013, so that you will have a good chance to have horse baby.....
I heard that horse babies are very Smart....
you will have from now until June to Tiao Yang your health...
all the best to you, my dear friend !!!
Lol....yes pig is snake's enemy! no doubt on it.
btw we can have indirect enemies too. maybe tiger is your hubby's indirect enemy.
i got to find out this when i chance a card flipper that tells me things quite true. cos my husband's sis always bully me and so strange this card flipper ask me to avoid this chinese zodiac animal as it creates lots of trouble for me. this woman is not my direct enemy so after this incident, i start to think of it as 'indirect' zodiac enemy. ...but it does create endless trouble for me.
horse babies very smart? heee.e... i dont know . i am a horse and i dont't find myself particularly intelligent. lol.
ya really if want, have to wait past june 2013. really 1 more year to go ...so long...
LOL...or maybe your boss does indeed hate you? cos zodiac enemy? then she purposely make you the target of dislike by making you a pet? so you will be arrowed by others? heeee.... i am just thinking of different perspective...hope you dont't mind.
That's why working life is always very difficult...esp when people just want to make living, some people just get jealous and want to create politics...i understd what you mean as i was a victim previously too. hope your new job is wonderful...
if you born in year of snake, then you can double sting. lol....
from what you says western horoscope really does play a part. i will go look into my nearly relationships too to detect this.
Ya…. I think there is indirect enemy…. Because I read certain website, they did state different enemies from other websites. All Along I thought we only have One enemy in the Chinese Horoscope.
Ya June 2013 is One year apart…. But Come to think of it… it is Not so bad afterall, because you have One year To rebuild your Health. Once your Health is back, you can have your healthy baby which is also not a Snake…. One Stone kill two Birds.
and when i walk, very very "Chuan"
so i think confirm it is my health not good , thats why cannot carry the baby to full term
you dont't worry, ok ? After One year, your health definitely will get better !!! in fact traditional chinese medicine can make us better within six months....
as long as you listen to doctor's advice, and avoid all the bad food that she advise not to eat, One year, you will be a better person in health !!
btw, my friend, i really need to warn you about chinese Barley. I was talking to traditional chinese medicine for revisit and discussing about Barley. She told me as what a medical hall told me previously that Barley water is no joke during first trimester. cos people i mention to (in 1 thread) do not believe Barley must be abstain esp the first 3 mths. This is the 2nd person who says cannot. She told me Barley will cause baby to be washed out.... so pls dont't drink any barley water when time comes ok.
Yes...i hope i definitely have better health soon but my 3th visit to this $13 doctor but things seem to be progressing very slowly as in fact i didn't notice my health better and backache, knee cap weakness are still there and the sharp pain at 1 pt of knee still recur on and off.....
traditional chinese medicine medication takes so long to take effect? any idea?
last time zhong hua doctor also warned me not to take barley water.... in fact she say not only during pregnancy that i cannot take barley, i should not take any barley water in my whole life at all... because barley water will make my body and womb cold....
my dad say take more calcium food will improve knee problems one.... have you been taking calcium? Not only in pills, but milk, and other natural food? you can be like me, start to take Anlene Milk powder every morning....
Food rich in calcium
Dairy foods Milk, yogurt, cheese Leafy green vegetables Broccoli, kale, spinach Fruits Oranges Beans and peas Tofu, peanuts, peas, black beans, baked beans Fish Salmon, sardines Miscellaneous Sesame seeds, blackstrap molasses, corn tortillas, almonds, brown sugar
Last edited by faithmummy; 04-08-2012 at 11:16 AM.
Good to know you are told before to abstain from barley. I really didn't know it has such detrimental effect until recently. :P
I have not been consuming calcium much in a natural way. in fact i am popping average 1 calcium pill per day when dosage say i can take up to 4 pills. i think 4 is really too much so i just take minimum.
Dairy products: i dont't consume milk directly at all. even i was preggie, i have to force myself to on and off take formula milk powder. but now i am totally off milk!!! i find milk makes me fat...dont know why.
Take about fat, i have gain 5 kg this period of time....faint. what about you?
Faithmummy, btw, you drink Anlene milk as it is? as in you dont't mix with coffee or coco? and take it alone in the morning?
having milk alone will not make you sleepy?
Only dairy product i like is cheese! i am a cheese lover but dont't take cheese daily
Fruits: Orange! I am told to abstain from it given i always got phlegm! really i can't take orange...haa... i know since years back!
Leafy greens, beans and peas, fish: these are the ones i consume so at least natural calcium are there if i eat them
Can't remember if i got mentioned in one of the threads that we were chatting in that zhong hua ever told me I cannot eat all the Liang Food such as Watermelon, bitter Gourd, Barley water, Old Cucumber, Green Tea..... because all these cause the womb to be cold...
I sometimes got mix Anlene with Milo.... so that it taste nicer...
by the way, i just found out that Milo also got Calcium !!!! hahahahah if you took milo everyday, i think it should be just fine !!
i just weigh myself not long ago... i am 56 kg ARGHHH !!!! means i am fatter
i am 1.61 m only hahahha so i am not tall. 56 kg is consider fat
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