Mine need to wait for almost 1 yrs+...
This is a discussion on How long did you trying to concieve before you strike? within the Trying To Conceive forum, part of the You and Your Family category; Originally Posted by AiLiNg so envy to those who able to strike within few months of trying. We being married ...
Mine need to wait for almost 1 yrs+...
Hi. I m new to this forum. Hubby helped to subscribe. trying to concieve for 1 month and had all symptoms of pregnancy. Alas...menses came...was so disappointed.. heart crashed... Had been praying for a baby but only God knows the timing.. Will be going to c gyn this weekend for a check up. Was concerned y got all symptoms but not pregnant. Pple kept saying to build up health while trying to concieve. Anyone knows exactly how to build up health to trying to concieve better? Already taking folic acid since 1 week ago. Menses not regular does not help... :/ Hubby said too stress will affect.. but I do not think I m stressed tho really thinking to have a baby... How to increase the chances?
the best solution is to quit thinking about having a baby at all.
as soon as you stop obsessing with that baby idea, your baby will find you. somehow this is what i hear fr lots of people...
before i was same as you .. every month disappointed .. i try all sorts of ways .. very stressed n gan cheong .. not happy
slowly .. i didnt tink about it .. haha .. it came to find me ...
so most impt you must be happy & relax ..
Hi, i trying to concieve for close to a year before i strike. Was very stress during the 1 year when in-laws keep pressuring.
I agreed relaxing is the way to go about it. Try to also get into the mood also. For me i restrict my hubby from sexual activities for 2 weeks to build up his sperm counts
my friends told me the recommended timing is evening time 4-5pm ..
dont know whether is it true or coincidence .. we did try before once during the 4mth then we got it ..
I actually think that you should just enjoy the doing process.
babies seems to be the more you want it, the more dont have.. and vice versa..
Thanks for all your advices... Indeed, the more you think of it, the more you will not get it.. it happens to almost everything! Still, sometime hard not to think as I really want to have 1.. hahah... gan cheong ... ok, will try to physco my mind not to think and enjoy the process...
Does it really matter about "storing the sperms" for a few days? I mean, if it happen that hubby needs it almost everyday, that will affect trying to concieve? For man, sometime it's hard to control ...
Health ? need to eat more???
high sex drive but will it affect the "quality"? must store a few days before? just dont't know if ML everyday will affect the chances as it could be "diluted"? hahaa.... also, the quantity will affect too?
Recently, I'm kinda depressed... co kept asking us to go on forced leave.. 1 month work could be compressed to 1-2 months.. so very stressed for not completing work on time... and forced leave = no pay.... coupled w family problem (not my hubby)... under medication... also, before that, was under contraception pills for 4 months... stopped for 2 months as want to trying to concieve.. with all these medications and stop contraception pills... now, my menses went haywired... 1 month can have 2 times... makes it harder to trying to concieve...
anyone has problem after stopping the contraception pills? It was terrible after stopping... nauseous, dizzy, no appetite...gyn did say it's normal... and now my cycle not consistent... harder to trying to concieve... depress on top of depression..
mayb we should continue this thread..cos i want to know wats the average month trying to conceive
Mine was just 1 month but thts coz i always knew when i was ovulating.
sighzz...how not to tink when our ovulation timing is lehhh.....been trying for 1.5years liaooo.....seems like evy month, i will tink, when my ovulation, when we do etc....ZzzZZZzzZZZ...sianzzz~
That time I tried for 6 mths, then go see gynae to check, found a cyst and diagnosed with endometriosis. Went for op to remove cyst. Then gynae offered to give me monthly jabs for 4 months to stop my menses so that the clots in my tubes (caused by the condition endometriosis) will clear up. My hubby and I refused to undergo that treatment and told gynae that we will try another 6 mths. If nothing then we will take that treatment.
So I was put on chlomid as well as another pill (can't remember the name) and exactly after 6 mths, strike.
Every time after ML I will rest for half hour and rest buttock on pillow before moving around, like walking or whatever. I was also taking folic acid for that whole year that I was trying. Eating healthily is also impt as it's good to build up the nutrient stores in your body as the baby will need lots of nutrients when he/she is conceived.
The theory is that the more time sperm spend swimming in the warm environment of the testes, the more likely they are to suffer DNA damage; they also seem to become sluggish. So ML every other day is suggested.
Me and my hubby weren't really trying to concieve before but we did agree to start trying to concieve and within months I got pregnant unfortunately the pregnancy didn't last.
Currently we are serious trying to concieve and hopefully God will bless us a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby this time.
I conceive 7 months after marriage... the first few months been trying but was always dissapointed. And i & my hubby went on an exercise & healthy diet regime and i actually got pregnant without even trying too hard. Cause me & my hubby actually have a better sex life after we started the healthy lifestyle. And I do hear that exercise can help to make yr menstruation problem (if any) ok n it actually increase the sperm count of the male...
Wishing all trying to concieve ladies here Goody Luck..
I'm also planning trying to concieve...
Let's all jia you!
I understand how you feel. Let me share my experiecen with you.
I was diagnosed with PCOS and have inverted womb. By right inverted womb will not have much effect on your conceiving. PCOS is. PCOS is a condition that affect females and females who have PCOS usually have irregular or no menses at all. Plus, those with PCOS may display symptoms like being hairy, acne prone face, plump,etc. I am lucky in the sense that i am not very hairy but I do have bad bouts of acne and was putting on weight fast.
I knew I was something 'wrong' when my menses dont come for many months and feel weird..that type of feelings when you know something not right about yourself... So i seek the opinion of my 1st gynae and went thru a blood test to determine and confirm if I am having PCOS, and viola, i am a PCOS patient. So i was prescribed Yasmine pills to try regulating my hormones and hence menses. Took for a 6 mths cycles but found it not too suitable and acne is spreading like mad fire. Seek the opinion of a GP that is also a dermatologist and was presecribe diane 35, took for about 6mth to 1 yr and beyond and my acne improved tremendously. I continue to take my diane until I got married and stop diane for about 4 mths(4 cycles) reason being since i am legally married and also since i wanna see if i can let nature take it course to 'treat' me and see if my menese will be regulated. To my disapointment (& also maybe is a blessings in diguise), in th 3rd month off the pills, i feel very weird about myself. I tends to get hungry easily and sometimes w/o reaosns I feel my head spinning and the world seems to be revolving around me...so i went to a gp and he got me to do a pregnancy test and viola, he announced, :"you are pregnant!" and showed me the result...
Incubator, dont despair or lose heart, your baby will come.. Just eat well, exercise and sleep well. Let nature takes its own course, dont't pressure yourself. Pressure wont help you but when you are in a relaxed mood baby will come hugs!
Hmm, you may also consider getting your hubby to do a check up to see and determine if the problem lies with him?
Dust some baby dust to you Hope you receive good news soon!
Update us ok ? Take care!
it gets more and more difficult as days go by.. if you r over 30.. it takes longer... sigh
Its been 7mths plus since we trying to concieve... very long journey.. still no good news. I have done all I can.
For us, we only plan to have baby recently (I was 34) and I got pregnant without putting much effort unfortunately I lost her at 20 weeks. Now we are trying to concieve again and I guess it would be much harder this time becoz when you want, you think, then got obsessed with the O thingy = stress = fail to conceive