I m 36 yo, just got preg last yr, but last it in jan due to abormality.
I have rested for two mens cycle, going to start wk again as my mens going to end soon. Have faith in youself, I am very fat, about 115kg, many doc say i will have diff geting preg, but I do and do and do, deligently for two months.
I think you must really learn to enjoy the process, dont take the trying process as a chore, than you will do more frequently.
Try to make it out of love, not work............